How much was your home, how much are payments and how much do you make?

posted 3 years ago in Home
Post # 3
10384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Are you factoring in insurance and taxes into your monthly payment? Make sure you do – it adds a substantial amount.

We bought a $476,000 townhome in the San Fran area in November. Our mortgage payment is about $1600, but with taxes and insurance, it is about $2150. We make about $185,000 a year combined. It’s well within a comfortable range for us.

I think you should only buy what you can afford now. You don’t know what will happen with your jobs in the future – I think it is unwise to bank against raises and promotions that may never happen to bolster the affordability of your home.

Post # 5
2657 posts
Sugar bee

You’re definitely asking the right questions and a house can be risky if you don’t look at the long-term picture.  We were also approved for a crazy high figure ($380k i think) and we knew we did not want to use that.  Combined, we make about $110k and we bought a house for $175k.  Our down payment was 10k, which was less than 10% of the house’s value.  I was a little concerned about the payment because I wanted to put more in, but we wanted to get a mortgage while the rates were so low.  We actually did the math and realized that for us, waiting another year for a larger payment would not have a significant benefit.  We got a 20-year mortgage instead of a 30-year, and our payments are just under $1200 per month.  Our rent was originally $950 so the home payment wasn’t a huge stretch for us, and we save money elsewhere with utilities and commuting together.  We feel comfortable because the payments are very manageable for us and we’re building more equity in these early stages.  In a worst case scenario where we could not afford payments, we could refinance to a 30-year to reduce them.

One option you may want to consider is a cheaper, smaller home with a shorter term mortgage, because you’re building more equity now that can be used towards an upgraded home later.

Post # 6
628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

we make about 115K together and our house was about 175K we put 5% down because we wanted to put money into the house as well. our mortgage is only like 740 but taxes are really high in our area so with taxes and insurance we pay 1300 a month. we first started looking at houses in the 220K Price range and i didn’t want a payment to be into the 1600- 1700 range just too high for us, my husband still has a car payment and we have some credit card debt that we are paying off… stay where you are comfortable! You can always sell later when you both make more money, this home is not our forever home but maybe a 7 year plan…

Post # 7
3280 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We bought our starter home for $82k (2bd, 2bth, 1200 sq ft). Our mortgage is $506 a month with taxes and insurance included and we put 20% down for a 30 year fixed loan. We painted and put new floors in and raised the value to 115k. We are both full time college students in our senior year. We make about 40k combined right now but both have job offers of 65K+ so we will have combined 140k most likely next year. We will stay in this house for about 5 more years and save to buy our next home (likely in the 150-200k range). 

Post # 8
8847 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

You’re smart to ignore your approval number and just try to figure out what number YOU’RE comfortable with!

When we bought our house last year, I made ~$50,000 pre-tax and my FI was still in school.  We purchased our house for $130,000 with 10% down – it’s a small 2 bedroom 850 sq foot house that’s perfect for the two of us.  Our mortgage + tax + insurance payment is $725/month, which is about 20% of my pre-tax income.  However, my FI just started his job which also pays ~$50,000, so our mortgage will only be ~10% of our income.

We’re very happy to be able to pay our mortgage with such a small chunk of our income.  However, we wanted to buy a “starter home”, not a “forever home”, which would obviously change things.  Our philosophy was, why pay for a lot of extra space that we don’t need??

Post # 9
826 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

How much do you make combined? 150k


How much are your payments? House was 240k, put 12k down, payments are 1800 (that’s including taxes and insurance)


Do you feel  comfortable with them? Yes


Would you recommend a nicer, longer-term home with huge  payments to grow into, or a smaller, possibly shorter-term home with tiny  payments so you can still maintain a nice lifestyle? I’d definitely recommend a smaller short-term home over a house with bigger payments to grow into. I’ve seen too many people get in over their heads with homes and I wouldn’t want that stress. There are too many unexpected expenses that come up that you need to have extra money for, so you don’t want to be just getting by every month- even if you think it will be temporary.

ETA: I just noticed your combined income is about half of ours and I think it is crazy that your approval is for 100k more than the house we bought. I would not feel comfortable with a mortgage of 340k and we don’t have any other debt! In my opinion, banks continue to be really irresponsible with mortgage approvals. It is no wonder that there are so many homes in foreclosure or going through short sales!

Post # 10
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@QueenOfSerendip:  We make about $80K combined. We bought a home for $155K, and our montly payments are approx. $950. We bought a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom split level home, which we wnated to make sure would be big enough for us and two kids.

I absolutely hated moving, so I would chose a long term home rather than short term. We knew we wanted a house that could accomodate future kids and pets, so we made sure to look for the right stuff when house hunting.

Post # 11
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

We make about $250k combined. We bought our $525k house with a $225k downpayment and then a 2.3% 5 year variable mortgage on the $300k. Our monthly payments are $1300 and we have the ability to double them, as well as pay off an extra 15% of principal each year. We are quite comfortable with that – we make our payments as well as pay about $25-35k extra each year – we have had our house 2 years now and our mortgage is already down at $190k. 
Our other monthly house costs (property taxes, home insurance, utilities, etc) are probably around $700.

I would recommend payments that you are easily comfortable with – where we are now we could still afford everything even if one of us got fired/sick/died etc. 

Post # 12
6158 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@QueenOfSerendip:  depending on the interest rate you get, you are probably better keeping more money in your pocket.  put the 20% down but don’t go over than unless you need to have a smaller mortgage payment.

when i bought my house last year, the guy told me the monthly mortgage payment decreases $20 for every $1000 you put down on top of the 20%.

he told me it wasn’t worth it and i got a 4% interest rate.


Post # 13
249 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We currently make a combined $130k.

When we bought our home 2 years ago, I was still in pharmacy school, so we based everything solely off of DH’s income ($78k). Our home, which is a rather large (~2200 sq. ft.) townhome in a nice area of a major city in the Southeast, cost $225k (we were approved for about $300k but would NOT have been comfortable with those payments). 

Thanks to my family’s generosity, we were able to put down 20% and take out a loan for $180k. We originally financed for 30 years since that’s all we could afford. I was barely making any money at the time, and we were still paying off my husband’s car and student loans. We were recently able to re-finance for a 15-year mortgage at a much lower interest rate! I think our monthly mortgage is about $1200, plus our HOA and insurance. 

A couple thoughts about the process:

I am so glad that we are able to meet all our payments (mortgage, insurance, etc.) on DH’s income alone. It really takes the pressure off of me since my current residency is for one year, then…??? I’m not sure what kind of salary I’ll have, since I may do another year of residency or try to work part-time. Or take some time off to have a baby! I know this isn’t a possibility for everyone, but it’s something to consider. 

Since we’ll be staying in this home at least another 5 years if not more, I think it was definitely smart to buy when we did. We really enjoy being home owners and like that we’re building equity. We would like a little bigger stand-alone home with a yard someday, but for now our townhome is perfect and could feasibly work even when we have 1-2 little ones. 

Our home was a bit of a fixer-upper (hence the low price), so we’ve definitely had to put some money into it along the way. For us, that has worked better than being locked into a higher mortgage for a move-in ready updated place, since we can spend money on projects as we’re able to. Last year we decided to take a break from house projects and go on a nice trip to Europe! The flexibility of having an affordable mortgage is very nice. 


Post # 14
2992 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Combined, about 150K. The house was 176K. Payments (with escrow) $1400. We put 20K down on the house.

Post # 15
2694 posts
Sugar bee

You’re wise to not go near the max. I remember watching one of those My First Place shows and the man kept on saying, “We were approved for $(insert high amount) so we should look in that range. Banks know what they’re doing.” I wanted to reach in the tv and slap him.

Post # 16
5518 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

DH and I never did a preapproval when house shopping.  We told them what we were comfortable spending and didn’t want to know what the preapproval would be because thats one reason how this whole housing crisis started.

We make roughly 85k/yr combined.  Our house was 210k and our payments are 1300 (principal/interest/taxes/ins).  We were renting for 725 but it didnt include any utilities, plus I didnt contribute then it was all him.  Our utilities are substancially higher now than in the apartment.

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