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How much was your wedding dress and who's paying for it?

posted 2 years ago in Dress
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  • poll: How much was your dress?
    Less than $1000 : (143 votes)
    50 %
    $1,000 to $2,000 : (92 votes)
    32 %
    $2,000 to $3,000 : (21 votes)
    7 %
    $3,000 to $4,000 : (11 votes)
    4 %
    $4,000 to $5,000 : (11 votes)
    4 %
    $5,000 to $6,000 : (5 votes)
    2 %
    More than $6,000 : (4 votes)
    1 %
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    cherryblossombee    August 20, 2011  

    My friends say the groom is supposed to pay, but I'm not from the US and my boyfriend is so I'm not sure if that's also the tradition.

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    My parents paid for my dress. These days anyone one can pay for their dress, but I have never heard of it being a tradition for the groom to pay for it.

     
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    jjwedding    May 14, 2011   Victoria, BC

    i made mine so i paid for it.. but it only cost me $60

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I also paid for my own gown. I have never heard of it being traditional for the groom to pay for it. Old tradition is for the bride's parents to pay for it.

     
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    Toffee    January 15, 2011   Hayden, Id

    I've never heard of that tradition either. Traditionally it's considered a bridal expense and therefore your parents pay, but nowadays whoever offers can pay for it. My dad and grandfather bought mine as an early birthday gift surprise. FI and I were planning on paying for it ourselves otherwise and my gown was $600 and exactly what I wanted.

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    My parents offered to pay and its $1500 w/o taxes or alterations - its a Maggie and I love it  :o)

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Mine was 900 and my parents paid for it. 

     
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    Mine was $1400, my parents and I split the cost.

     
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    slicey19      

    My first dress was paid by my parents and then I bought a reception dress and then I bought a dress to replace the first dress which were both paid for by me. However, the total for all three dresses and alterations is still under $1,000. Anyone want to buy a white ball gown with a chapel length train for a good price? lol I never thought I would buy 3 dresses!

     
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    DVsMom      

    My mom treated me to my dress and it was >6k. I have never heard of the groom's family buying it, but every culture is different.

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    My gorgeous generous mum is paying for mine. I'm having mine made (a silk 50s tea length prom dress - SO excited!). Its costing $1900 so I'm VERY grateful!

     
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    mrs-to-be    August 20, 2010   Netherlands

    The total for my dress and matching shrug and underskirt rang up for €1700/$2200 which almost gave me a heartattack!!! The dress itself is "just" €1299/$1600 which I found doable for the type of dress (it got some lovely beadwork and embroidery on it)  but they charged an insane amount of €295/$370 for the matching shrug.. :(

    Here the old-fashioned tradition would be for the bride's parents/father to pay for the dress as tis part of the bridal expenses. But as we live in a modern day world and all I would not at all feel comfortable if my parents had to pay for something that me and my FI decided on and all so I am more then happy to pay for our own wedding. My mum the sweetheart gifted me the dress for which I am extremely grateful cause otherwise I might have had to pick me a less expensive dress (we paying for the wedding in full ourslves).<3 mum!

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    My parents offered to pay for mine. I was ecstatic!! It was just a touch under $1000.

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    Mine was $3000, including alterations, and my parents paid for it.

     
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    jaylii9    September 5, 2010  

    My dress is $1800, and that price includes tax and all alterations. I paid for half of it and my Mom paid the other half.

     
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    s_h_e_l_b_s    May 8, 2010  

    My dress was 1500 and my mom paid for it.

     
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    tammyt112    May 29, 2010  

    I thought tradition was the bride's grandmother paid for it.  Mine costed $1000 and my mom put in $300 the rest my FI paid it

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    I got 2 for $525! and my parents paid

     
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    mrs-to-be    August 20, 2010   Netherlands

    (I am so envious of all of you who got a dress way under 1000!!)

     
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    nona49    June 5, 2010  

    The tradition in my culture is for the groom to pay for everything the bride wears from head to toe.  This is the Mexican tradition and may also be present in some other south american cultures (not sure).  BUT.....I'm marrying an All-American boy :o)  And I'm American born and so are my parents so I ended up paying for part of the dress and my Mom chipped in.  When my parents got married, my Dad paid for everything she wore (veil, shoes, dress, and boquet).  My sister also married a traditional Mexican-American guy and he paid for the entire wedding!

     
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    nona49    June 5, 2010  

    In fact (just thought of this), in the most traditional mexican families, as soon as the engagement begins, the groom-to-be is supposed to pay for anything his bride-to-be needs--like clothes, etc.  Oh, how things change :o)

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    Most girls I know if anyone paid for their dress besides them it was their mother or grandmother. I  think tradition says that the groom's parents are supposed to pay for flowers and transportation, but today anything goes. Whoever is willing and able to contribute to the wedding is greatly appreciated. My inlaws aren't paying for a dime.

     
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    Farfromachildbride    March, 2010   Boston

    Mine was $600, plus $240 in alterations.  I paid for all of it, which was good because it was actually my second dress and I didn't have to think twice.  Had someone else paid for my dress, I would have never gotten a second one and thus would never have loved my dress as much as I did in the end.   

    My husband paid for his suit.  He and I paid for a few other wedding items (invites, favors, etc.) but the majority of the actual wedding & reception (band, harpist, flowers, photography, food, alcohol, etc.) were generously paid for by my parents.  I'm very blessed!! 

     
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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    mine was around $2200, a Martina Liana gown, and my mom paid for it....my veil was 700...wtf?!??! my mom paid for that as well, but I thought we were getting a deal on the dress, only to feel like they got their money back with the overpriced veil....is that a normal price for a fricken veil? i know it has crystals on it, but Jesus!!!

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    My parents were awesome enough to pay for mine out of the set amount of money we're getting for our wedding. My dress was $2600, pre-owned. 

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    @Soon2BeMrs.CLW3- That was the normal price of all the cathedral veils I saw in the bridal salons. I fell in love with three different veils and they made them all into one veil which cost $1,500. I was mortified but my mom and grandmother were with me and they loved it so we ended up getting it.

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    I've never heard of the groom paying for the wedding dress....mine was a gift from my parents (my dad and stepmom) and it was about $1100 once you add the alterations.  That doesn't include the cost of my veil, which was about $150, custom made, elbow-length, SUPER simple. The only reason I had it custom made was because I couldn't find any veils that were simple enough for my taste!

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    I paid for my own dress(es).

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I haven't bought a dress yet but my budget is $1k or under. Actually, I'd like to stay under $500 if possible.

    My mother is going to pay for my dress. She doesn't have much money to contribute to the wedding, but she's really excited about paying for my dress. It's her one big contribution.

     
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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    It was $2200 and I paid for it.

    I agree, though, that usually the bride's parents (more specifically the mom) pays for it. 

     
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    alishadhs4    June 5, 2010   Colorado Springs, CO

    Mine was originally 1250 but i got it for 900 since i bought it off the rack! My fiance and I split the cost since I was unemployeed at the time.

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    my dress was 1600, and i'm very thankful that my mom bought my dress otherwise i would of had a dollar store dress, lol.

     
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    smyley    May 2010  

    I paid for everything for both daughters...gowns, shoes, jewelry, undergarments, veils, alterations....about $2000. each.

     
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    audamy    June 5, 2010   DC/MD

    Mine was $650 including alterations. I suppose technically both of our parents paid for it because the money came out of our wedding fund.

     
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    tara2bmarshall    August 9, 2010   PA

    My dress was 140 before alterations from David's Bridal Online Exclusives. I would have spent so much more but we're paying for everything but the destination reception dinner so I kept it simple. Bear with the photos... it was taken from the catalog online.

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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    My dress was about $500.  I got a great deal on it because I ordered it through Netbride.com.  I don't know yet how much I will spend on alterations.  I paid for it myself.

     
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    tweds    September 18, 2010  

    $1500 for my beautiful Pronovias. I paid for it myself!

     
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    SweetAdelineXO    June 5, 2010   NJ

    My mom paid for my dress. With alterations it came out to about $1300. I've never heard of the groom paying for the dress.

     
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    katiebug    July 31, 2010  

    My dress was around $3,000, and I paid for it myself!

     
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    JsDragonfly    December 29, 2009  

    My dress was $370...my dad paid for most of the dress and then I paid for the rest and the alterations.

     

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