Post # 1
I need some advice on whether i’m being overly paranoid here from you Bees! Thank you in advance for reading this!
So I love my fiance very much and he’s never given me any reason not to trust him but….he’s been friends with a girl for years. She’s gorgeous. We were all at a wedding this weekend and to his credit, he never did anything inappropriate even though I know that he used to really fancy her.
On the evening reception however he and another bloke spent a good 30 minutes talking to each other and afterwards when another married bloke started talking to her, my fiance commented that it was inappropriate for a married man to be talking to a single girl….was this jealousy?
When we got home and looked at some wedding photos on facebook, he hovered over a picture of her….is this something to be worried about because it’s making me feel a bit like i’m second best?
I want to hate this girl but, she’s actually lovely. She’s blonde, busty….the complete opposite of me and I can see why guys like her both for her looks and personality but, I’m feeling totally insecure knowing that he used to like her and that probably, still does! Is this acceptable? Do I have a right to say anything because in all likelihood, she’s coming to our wedding!
Post # 3
There is a reason that he chose you and if she is the oposite of you, well then obviously she is not what he was looking for.
Post # 4
Thanks….however she was never interested in him which is why he never got anywhere with her!
Post # 5
We can’t walk through life with blinders on. All of us, male and female, are going to find others attractive. We’re all apt to have wistful moments when we remember a past crush or boy/girl friend.
I wouldn’t feel threatened.
Post # 6
I think that special connection you have with your FI makes you prettier to him than the other “gorgeous” girl. Plus, we’re all attracted to different things. Maybe there was something else in the photo he was looking at. My FI will do that sometimes and I will be like WTF you lookin at? lol and he will say something totally unexpected like “that girl’s outfit is trashy.”
Post # 7
I think everyone has fantasies of what could be, But you are his life. I wouldn’t worry about it. We watched Just Go With It last night with Adam Sandler and Jennifer Aniston, and goodness Jennifer and the girl who played Adam’s gf are drop dead amazingly gorgeous in their bikinis, which I no longer am not. I think I stared just as hard as the hubs did!!! I made a face, he gave me the eyes, and kissed me. Just remember, he picked you