How often do u and your SO have sex?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
749 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

We’ve been together almost 5 years ( 5 in september )

and we’re lucky if we get it once a fortnight. I usually dont mind i admit i am a bit lazy and we’re both tired out by the end of the day doing everything around the house etc too. so your not alone lol

Post # 4
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@budgetbrideMeredithH85:  We’ve been together over 2 years and have sex 5-7 times per week. I was with my ex for 10 years and we had sex more often (at least once a day). I was younger then and less busy 😛

Post # 5
679 posts
Busy bee

We have been together for 5 years and have sex about 2-3 times a week. Sometimes 1, sometimes 4. It all depends on the couple, if that number works for you then its great! We used to get busy and forget about it or only have sex on the weekends so we decided that every Wednesday we would have sex. Which I like, because it gives us a break in the middle of the week and reminds us to enjoy each other. Its kind of like setting up a date night, but its just a sex night.haha. And sometimes we’ll have long drawn out sex, and sometimes it will just be a quicky if we’re really busy.

Post # 6
102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@budgetbrideMeredithH85:  that is us too! We are just really busy people and we’re exhausted at the end of the night. But it works for us. And it makes vacations fun because then we can’t keep our hands off each other tehehe

Post # 7
2460 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Usually every other day 

Post # 8
448 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

We have been ‘together’ since I was 14 so about 13 years now.

Honestly we both have high sex drives but with work and things it can yo-yo between 4 times a week to 4 times a day.


Post # 9
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

We have sex two or three times a week!

Post # 10
898 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

We have sex about 4-6 times a week 🙂

Post # 11
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

the busier/more stressed we are, the less we do.  The second we’re relaxed or have some time off, we’re all over eachother! I’d say its around to 2x a week during the school year (I’m a teacher and he’s in school) and maybe 3 or 4x a week over the summer/vacations.  We’ve been together 3 years.

Post # 12
1323 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We have been together 8 years and we have sex 2-3 times per week. I wish it could be more, but we are both busy. But when it does happen, guns a blazin’ baby!!! It is definitely quality over quantity.   






Post # 13
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Maybe once a week.  If it goes on two weeks, we both start getting grumpy because we need the intimacy.

Post # 14
230 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

We’ve been together for about 2.5 years, it’s probably roughly around 1-2 times per week… If I’m lucky! Lol. He’s just tired most of the time, which I understand, and I hate morning sex. So we make do!

Post # 15
353 posts
Helper bee

For us, it pretty much completey depends on SO’s work schedule (I’m always up for it, lol). He freelances, so if he has a busy week, we might only have sex twice, but if has the whole week off, he’s attacking me first thing in the morning, every morning.

Post # 16
2661 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

It really varies for us. Sometimes we will have spurts where we have sex several times a week (including several days in a row), but other times it can be a week or more between times (although this usually happens when I have my period–mine usually lasts for 7 days, so there can be a long time inbetween sexytimes around that time of the month). We’ve been together for over 7 years, and started having sex about 9 months into dating (we were each other’s firsts), so we’ve been active for about 6.5 years.

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