How often do you and your partner say, "I love you?"

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How many times per day do you and your partner say, "I love you?"
    Constantly! Too many to count : (168 votes)
    34 %
    Often! At least a few times per day : (260 votes)
    53 %
    Once per day - no more, no less : (35 votes)
    7 %
    Rarely. We say it, but not every day : (27 votes)
    5 %
    Never : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    7188 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    We say it all the time. Too many times to count, and I love it 🙂

    Post # 4
    262 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    A few times a day. Maybe sometimes too often to count :).

    Post # 5
    170 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Often. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

    Post # 6
    3406 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    We say it A LOT, but I hope we aren’t one of those annoying couples lol Thank god we don’t say “OMG I like totally love you” haha

    Post # 7
    1648 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2000

    all zee time! It’s become part of my daily vocabulary

    Post # 8
    2299 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Hmmmm…. it varies. At least once a day, when leaving the house to go to work, school or wherever. Before we go to sleep if we go to bed at the same time. Sometimes just out of nowhere. Not often enough that it gets cheesy (my opinion, obviously), but it definitely isn’t a rarity, either.

    Post # 9
    2305 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    In my family we always say “I love you” with regularity. Any time we’re leaving, going to bed, hanging up the phone; all the time.

    DH was really put off by it at first because early on in our relationship I didn’t realize it, but I was saying it to him at least a few times a day, and he felt like it made it less ‘special.’

    Now we’ve been married 8 months and I just laugh because HE is saying it to ME constantly. Like several times a day.

    He’s in Italy right now and even when we’re only communicating over text/facebook he messages me with “I love you so much” several times a day.

    Post # 10
    4042 posts
    Honey bee

    We say it every night when we go to bed and then on occasion throughout the day if we feel like saying it.

    Post # 11
    1036 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  We say it all the time. However, there are ways to pause and say it in a more meaniful way if you want it to mean something extra. 🙂

    Post # 12
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    A few times per day. Enough for us!

    Post # 13
    2125 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    All of the time! Whenever I am reminded how much he means to me. I am about to say it now 🙂

    Post # 14
    1535 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    pretty much everytime we get off the phone, in the morning on our way out, at night…sometimes randomly as well

    Post # 15
    864 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    As often as we can! I don’t think it demeans it unless you say it out of habit or to break silence…but if it’s a genuine ‘I love you,’ say it as much as you can! 🙂

    Post # 16
    1229 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

    All the time! it always feels special 🙂 

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