(Closed) How often do you and your SO have sex?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you have sex?
    We haven't had sex yet, we're waiting for marriage : (10 votes)
    3 %
    More than once a day : (8 votes)
    2 %
    Once a day : (8 votes)
    2 %
    Several times a week : (137 votes)
    42 %
    Around once a week : (98 votes)
    30 %
    Once every couple weeks : (45 votes)
    14 %
    Once a month : (12 votes)
    4 %
    Once every couple months : (7 votes)
    2 %
    Once every 6 months or year : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    13102 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’ll jump in as the first to reply.

    We have sex once every week or two.  It would probably be weekly if DH didn’t work out of town for half of every week which limits our opportunities.

    Post # 4
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    3949 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Once a week.  I make sure not to let it go longer than that.  But I do feel really guilty that it’s not more than this. 

    Post # 5
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    36 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We are at around a couple times a week since we are TTC. 

    Post # 6
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    2787 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    It depends on the week…this week we had sex every night…last week three times. I’d say 3 minimum though.

    Post # 7
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    5068 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    On average about 3 times a week.

    Post # 8
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    276 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    ughhh not near enough. maybe once every 2 weeks. we have a 2 year old in our bed, so that puts a damper on things. and my mirena caused my sex drive to go WAY down. thank goodness i see the OBGYN next week to get it out!!

    Post # 9
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    9625 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    At least once a day, sometimes more.

    Post # 10
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    1030 posts
    Bumble bee

    it varies on so many levels. sometimes multiple times a day, other times once in a month! it depends a lot on what’s going on in our personal lives (he works stupid hours) and the fact that i’m an early bird and he’s a night owl – not a great combination.

    we went on holiday last month and for 2 weeks we couldn’t get enough of each other. if only it were like that all the time!

    Post # 11
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    3251 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Usually once a day and on a good day, LOL, twice.  

    Post # 12
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    1037 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    it all really depends because he works alot out of town. hes been gone for a week so its MIA. plus he now has poison ivy. so were on a dry spell. haha. but usually its a couple times a week.

    Post # 13
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    1715 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2016

    More than once a day every time we see each other. At least 4 times a day. 

    Post # 14
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    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Usually every other day, with some exceptions (me being too tired or we both had long days) these exceptions are rare though.. even with the exceptions it will be a 2 day gap. and on EXTREMELY rare occasion 2 times a week at the least. us having 2 kids (ages 4 and 1.5) and been together for 8.5 years living together for 6 years, i say were doing awesome! lol

    Post # 15
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    4276 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Several times a week.

    Post # 16
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    2077 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I voted “Around once a week.”  Sometimes it’s more, sometimes it’s less.

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