(Closed) How often do you 'do the deed'

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you have sex?
    Several times a day : (3 votes)
    2 %
    1-4 times a week : (160 votes)
    82 %
    5-10 times a week : (29 votes)
    15 %
    10+ times a week I just can't get enough : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    12250 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Probably less than 4 times a week! My Fiance and I could make it happen many, many times a day when we first started dating, but that was a long time ago!


    Post # 5
    9074 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    My husband and I will do it at least once a day. However, he deploys often so our sex life is pretty sporadic. We have sex like rabbits when he is home.

    Post # 6
    601 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Us we are about four times a week though on occasion its been known to happen more then that as in a couple times a day. But normal is a few times a week.

    Post # 7
    1578 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

    We have sex probably 3-6 times a week, depending on our work shifts. I sometimes work the “no dinner, no sex” shift (that’s the name Fiance gave it lol) from 3-11pm and he’s already asleep when I get home.

    Post # 8
    4109 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I voted 1-4 times a week. My sex drive has gone down dramatically since being pregnant.  

    Post # 9
    20 posts

    I’m in med school an hour away From where FH and I grew up. We try to see each other once a week but its very hard with my studies

    Post # 10
    1144 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d like it at least 4 times a week but SO doesn’t want it that often =/. His theory is that its so much better when we wait a little instead of doing it so often. I sort of think he has a low sex drive and I have the libido of a boy. ha!

    Post # 11
    2999 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    pshh — you need a less frequent option! LOL!

    Post # 12
    432 posts
    Helper bee

    I think my SO would think there was something wrong with me if I suddenly wanted him 10 times a week haha!

    Post # 13
    32 posts



    Ha! Same as me. I would do it everyday but SO thinks it’s better to wait…I can see his point…a bit.

     Like Lily_of_the_valley said, there needs to be a less frequent option. Realistically and on average, once a week is closer to the truth. 

    Post # 14
    4659 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Used to be like once a day but we’ve been busy during work and megalazy when we’re off… I don’t turn him down ever, it’s not like I’m denying him sex. He just goes through lulls where he doesn’t really care much — we kind of switch off who wants it more. We probably do it around twice a week. 

    Post # 15
    1652 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    About once a week since I got pregnant.

    Post # 16
    3053 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    I’d say one or 2 times a week. We started as long distance so once a week (when we would see each other) was always average. sometimes a couple times while we were together, sometimes we’d go 2 weeks without seeing each other. Sometimes I worry that it’s not more frequent now that we’re living together but my SO reassures me it’s enough. I don’t have a very high sex drive though which bothers me quite a bit.

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