Post # 1
You always hear statistics about average frequency, but I want to know, really, how often you get busy 🙂 And… I’m curious to see if DH and I are normal! I think we’re on the high side, we usually average out to more than once per day. Sometimes on the weekends, it’ll be 2 or 3 a day, and then we might skip a weekday if we’re busy/tired.
A year and a half together and we still drive each other crazy!
Post # 3
I think we’re on the high side as well- averages at least once a day! DH def has a higher drive then I do, I think that’s somewhat related to my IUD. We’ll see if that changes once I take it out!
Post # 4
Usually at least 3 times a week, but sometimes more.
Post # 5
I love that there are so many votes for this poll, and only around three replies! It does depend on the week, but most times when we’re not busy or separated by circumstances, it’s 3-5 times.
Post # 6
My husband and I have sex 1-2 times per day, but we are in a LDR which I think definitely throws things askew
Post # 7
@btothez: Wow, to me that seems like its on the high side, but good for you! We only have sex maybe once every 2 weeks (I’m 24, he’s 29) But I think a lot of it is he is SO stressed 24/7 with his job… he’s looking for a new one, but until then I think we will have the few, but good sex that we have. I definitely try to initiate more often, but he is never up for it.
Post # 8
We don’t have sex as often as FI would like to. Haha. Poor guy… My birth control really messes with my sex drive 🙁
Post # 9
We are usually 3 to 5 times per week… Or schedules often don’t line up, so sometimes it’ll be a few days and then we go 2 or 3 times in one day because the tension has built so much. We’ve been together for 7 years, and I was always worried because neither of us have ever had a high enough drive to have continuous stretches of having sex every day… But I’ve realized over the years that our varied and loving sex that conintues to change and keep blowing my mind is fabulous even if it isn’t every day : )
Post # 10
We have it maybe once a month or less? We are currently living with my parents and it weirds me out to do that in their house. My mom is against it also. But when we lived together it was more like once a week.
Post # 11
It just depends. Sometimes it’s every other day, sometimes every other week. I recently came off of the pill (not TTC, just want to clean my system out for a bit), and that had really lowered my sex drive, so now I’m a bit more active in that department. My husband would have sex mulitple times a day if I was up for it, but I have other things to do!
Post # 12
we dont live together but we stay about 4 days a week together, so maybe 1-2 times a week if that, if im not in pain from my fibromyalgia symptoms.
Post # 13
@btothez: If all is normal, we are 2-3 times a week, but sometimes only 1-2 times a week. I would really like it to be consistently at least 3 times a week, but DH seems to have a much lower drive than me. They say men peak around 18, and women around 28 sexually…and that definitely seems to be the case in our relationship!
Post # 14
married 9 months….between 2-4 times a week.
Post # 15
Lately between 5 to 10 times per week. Do blowjobs count or just sex? If blowjobs count, I need to change my numbers 😛
Post # 16
Maybe 4 or 5 times per week now, but it changes depending on how we feel, how busy we are, etc.