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There is nothing wrong with you. The vast majority of women don't orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. Like 70%.
Yeah, most women don't. My friends have always given me grief because I'm the odd (wo)man out in that I have at least 1 per go. I'm hyper-sensitive, which is usually pretty awesome, but sometimes can get sort-of painful.
Even with my hyper-sensitiveness, this has not been the case with all of my past partners.
Nothing wrong with you (or your partner - one of my friends actually suggested DH was doing something wrong bc I didn't get "there" every time)! Um, no, I know my own body and I know it's not him bc he's awesome :)
I'm all about the toys to "finish." "Several men (6-7)" hahahaha. I guess several is anything more than 3 technically. All in the eye of the beholder, and I am 32!
Unless there is oral or direct stimulation I wont orgasm...I really dont care because sex is awesome regardless!
You are perfectly normal. Most women do not orgasm with intercourse alone.
Personally, intercourse feels great, but I need some direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. I see nothing wrong with that! Sometimes FI helps, or we use a toy. Occaisonally I won't get there during intercourse, but FI will go down on me after he has recovered a bit. This works for us!
Out of the occasions we have intercourse, how often do I orgasm? Most of the time (somewhere btwn 50-75% of the time)
How often do I orgasm as a direct result of the intercourse? Never
With everything online nowadays, there are probably many ways for you and your SO to "get there". Maybe suggest looking up these thing together to enhance the experience? and I'm not necessarily talking about the X rated videos, but actual instructional things he can do. Also, a lot of women don't get there because of the positions that you do during intercourse...maybe try different positions to see which ones give you better pleasure than others? and also, because the clitoral stimulation is so pronounced and sometimes the vaginal one is muted, a lot of times women don't know that what they just experienced was an orgasm...it just sometimes isn't the same magnitude as the clitoral one.
Most of the time. I don't all the time, but I still enjoy it anyway!!!! I find it easier to climax when he's doing it from behind or when I'm on top rather than in missionary.
I used to get a lot of guff from my partners about not climaxing "to their liking" which, is you can imagine, very frustrating for me! For me, intercourse isn't all that thrilling. It's all about the clitoris for me! (toys, manual stimulation) I honestly could take a nap during bland boring intercourse ( of course I don't!!! ) For some reason there are a few guys out there who just think their penis is some magic wand that will automatically bring me ecstacy, pshhhhh.
Sidebar: the only way I can orgasm during intercourse is if I'm on top, that way the clitoris gets a little contact with his pelvic bone.
I normally have like 3 or 4 each time? I'm just easy to please I guess.
@Ilikepink - HISSSSSS! haha just kidding! I am quite jealous though... I can't imagine having 3 or 4 in a row, I'm pretty tuckered after just one!
I rarely do, but I fake it to make him happy. It doesn't bother me because I can get there on my own just fine.
Wow. I can't believe how many voted that they orgasm during intercourse. Do they all mean that they orgasm FROM the intercourse (vaginal orgasm) or just when they have intercourse (ie, they have intercourse, but clitoral stimulation might be what actually brings them to orgasm)? Like previous posters, I had always read that the vast majority of women do not orgasm from intercourse. I am certainly in those numbers. I really enjoy intercourse, but I have never orgasmed or even come close from it. Clitoral stimulation is the only thing that makes me orgasm.
@veganglam: I'm with you on that. I always orgasm whenever we have sex (the few times I didn't was because I was too tired and I just went forward to satisfy him :)..) but, penetration alone won't ever make me come.... nk. I was close, very close once, but nop... Alas. So, to asnwer your question, Yes I always orgasm, but no through penetration. I love penetration and it certainly makes the feeling much more intense, but I def. need clitoral stimulation to come.
I also wonder how many women really achieve an orgasm by penetration only.
Honestly, I've never had an orgasm from intercourse. But FH and I usually engage in some oral sex and I always orgasm with that. Penetration is great, but I do need the clitoral stimulation to actually get anywhere...
I don't have them through intercourse alone, I need some added help. It's fine, I can always get there, just not through traditional methods.
I do. It is very rarely that I don't. My 'area' is rather sensitive and I can feel things more profoundly. It is a bad thing though, since after I orgasm, the area is MORE sensitive and if FI keeps going because he hasn't come, it starts to hurts.
I finally had an internal, "Gspot" orgasm with FI, and now can experience ejaculation when the stars aline as well.
But you know what? Compared to my clitoral orgasms? It's not as good. It feels good, but its not as much of a peak as a clitgasm. It comes on slowly and lasts for a long while but the peak isn't pronouced. After a clitoral orgasm, if my partner waits a few seconds between, I can have one after another (i've gone in the 30+ range during an all day marathon)
To get to experience the internal orgasm and ejaculation I read a lot of books, I watched a tutorial, and had a patient exploring partner.
Now I feel satisfied because I know what all the fuss is about, or rather really that.... I'm not missing anything.
Oh and I can ejaculate from any type of orgasm, but it's kind of a pain in the ass/messy but FI loves it. But its not like the shaken coke bottle shooting across the room.
I used to not orgasm everytime and it really bugged me because I used to orgasmn everytime. Now FI and I use a toy that slips over his friend and has a vibrator on it. It hits my clitorous everytime and I'm able to orgasm everytime now. We don't start out with it on but about half way through we get our toy out. I really enjoy it. And there have been times where we don't use the toy and I still orgasm. But we are both happy now that I'm able to finish each time.
I orgasm and ejaculate everytime. I'm not sure why. I just do. Intercourse is enough to get me off, thank God.
Almost everytime. Sometimes multiple times. It depends on how much foreplay/how turned on I am.
I do most of the time and am very thankful for this ability. Even better is that is that FI has incredible control over his big 'O' and can generally time it so it happens for us simultaneously.
With my ex-husband before I had my son I very rarely orgasmed since then.. well really only with my wonderful DH now I orgasm for sure everytime and usually 3-6 times.
I could orgasm from intercourse alone everytime if we tried harder lol. We're both pretty happy to use a small vibrator on me while we have sex though! Mind blowing orgasms and after a long day of work, it's not a ton of work for either of us and it happens no fail everytime, sometimes even twice! When we have time, we'll prolong things and do it ourself
Never had an orgasm from intercourse. While oral feels good, I've never had an orgasm from that either. Only from manual stimulation...which is pretty rare when you end up with a lazy partner.
If you do have a lazy partner, beware bringing sex toys into the place. It gives them an excuse to be even lazier. Before you know it, that vibrator might be your primary or only lover.
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I was talking to a couple of my friends and we were discussing "toys" and how much easier it is than initiating intercourse at times. Then I mentioned something along the lines of that you don't orgasm every time you have intercourse and both of them said that they did orgasm every time they had intercourse...
I don't, I just assumed that was the norm. I've only been with my SO and the sex is good I just don't always finish. We do have sex often 1-2 times a day usually unless it is a bad week (busy, deadlines, etc.)
One of the girls like me has only been with her SO and the other has been with several men (6-7).
Is there something wrong with me?