Post # 1
How often do you take a shower with your SO? I feel like I’m weird but my SO and I shower together almost every day. My friend said something that kind of caught me off guard the other day. She was talking about how if I keep doing that then pretty soon my SO won’t be excited when he sees me naked. What do you girls think? Have you noticed your SO lose interest after getting too used to seeing you without clothes??
Post # 2
My SO and I have been showering together almost everyday for 5 years, he has yet to lose any interest, following to see answers.
Post # 3
Our shower runs out of hot water by the time we both do everything we need to, so we don’t shower together often lol.
I don’t think he’ll lose interest, as long as you still make an effort to make it interesting for him. Don’t make being naked no big deal all the time; it should be a big deal sometimes! There’s a difference between cleaning up the clothes in your room while naked and flirting while naked…husbands get that difference too (although I know that even while picking up clothes, there’s still an appeal lol). I wouldn’t worry.
Post # 4
Never. I like my hot showers all to myself, and so does he.
That being said, my DH sees me naked all the time and has yet to lost interest after 10 years, so I think you’re good.
Post # 5
We used to shower together a lot but we don’t much anymore. WE’ve come to kind of enjoy our alone time in the shower. I HATE showering with my husband in the morning, he stands there in my way sighing and blowing his stinky morning breath on me lol
Post # 6
I’ve been showering daily with my husband for almost 6 years and he shows no signs of losing interest.
Post # 7
Haha that’s a silly comment your friend made. Are you sick of chocolate yet?
Our new house has a tiny shower and my husband is 6’2″, so it’s not as common of an occurance as it used to be. Plus, we have very different schedules so we rarely shower at the same time of day and I often shower at the gym.
Post # 8
MsJ2theZ: LOL. Sounds like my FI.
Post # 9
katydaisy: Our shower is too small for the both of us to be comfortable. Sometimes if we both need to shower and have nothing to do after we’ll get in the shower together before sex. But that happens like once every 4 months or so
Post # 10
Has anyone ever met any man who was bored by a naked woman? Really? I haven’t.
Post # 11
CoffeeBeanKate: LoL, that’s why we first started showering together! Our water heater was old and there wasn’t enough hot water. But now it’s become a ritual. We don’t get frisky or anything, but it’s one of the ways that we share intimacy. We have deep conversations, haha.
Post # 12
I voted “never” because the last time we showered together (a little over a year ago), we were trading places for the shower head and he lost his balance and fell out of the tub! We figured it’s not worth getting hurt over. New house will have a big shower and TWO shower heads! haha
Post # 13
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A few times a month. (Voted other). We used to shower together every day but stopped since our shower head is small so one of us would be waiting in the cold lol. We lasted a while though, almost a year I think & he never lost interest though he’d get used to it… He wouldn’t ogle me (most times) and it was pretty tame unless I gave him a sign or something.
Post # 14
I have not heard of this species of man who is bored of naked women.
We often shower together. Sometimes in a sexy way, sometimes becasue we just came home from working out together and we both want to have a shower.
If I were to design my own bathroom I’d have two shower heads so that we can each control out own temp and dont’ have to trade spots to rinse off. I’d choose two shower heads before two sinks any day!
Post # 15
I never shower with my SO.
For this one simple and selfish reason: ALL THE HOT WATERS ARE MINE!!!!
To answer your 2nd question… I do not think there is a correlation between seeing your SO naked a lot and losing interest. That is absolute baloney in my mind. “Interest” is so much more than just the visual, its emotional, physical, visual and everything else all tied up together.