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How often does your S/O annoy you?

posted 6 months ago in Emotional
  • poll: How often does your S/O annoy you?
    He's NEVER annoyed me EVER, not once! : (3 votes)
    1 %
    He never annoys me really... SUPER rarely! But people annoy me, so that's really amazing : (16 votes)
    6 %
    Occasionally (maybe once or twice every few months) : (25 votes)
    10 %
    Sometimes (couple times a month) : (44 votes)
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    Somewhat often (couple times a week) : (65 votes)
    25 %
    Frequently (almost once a day) : (50 votes)
    19 %
    Pretty much all the time. But that's okay, I love him anyway. : (51 votes)
    20 %
    Somewhere inbetween these : (6 votes)
    2 %
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    yanamari    September 25, 2013   Maryland

    I make polls on here when I'm bored. So let's have it... how often does he annoy you? I know that can be a broad question... but take it as you feel is right. haha

     
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    SapphireSun    July 2010   BC, Canada

    He does something that annoys me probably every single day, if not twice a day.  But I'm sure I annoy him just as much.

     

     
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    newname_99    March 9, 2013  

    @yanamari:  oh quite a lot. but thats because im a very grumpy person. its uber shortlived though!

    today for example i made a comment "baby, everywhere else we eat dinner you take your plate to the sink to be helpful. why dont you do it here?! if you can do it when your mum or friends prepare dinner, you can do it when i make you food!!". then he did his shamefaced face, and said he didnt realise our house was the only place he didnt do it and picked the plate up

    so its little irritations that last maybe 5 mins/ something that annoys me longer is very rare!!

     
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    elysion    August 17, 2013   Chicago, IL

    Somewhat often, but it's never anything I'll start a fight over LoL.

     
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    S2013    January 1, 2013   Online

    We annoy eachother all the time but it's okay. We spend a ton of time together.

     He also makes me happier than anyone else. He's not the most annoying person I know so I figure we're ok :)

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    Every few days he does SOMETHING that kind of annoys me. He's human though everyones annoying at some point lol. I still love his annoying butt.

     
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    Amber.Dawn    September 15, 2012   Southwest Virginia.

    Everyday!  I'm not a morning person and he's so annoying when waking me up. 

     
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    waitingalongtime    August 15, 2015   Michigan

    he is annoying me right now LOL

     
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    amoret11    November 6, 2010  

    I think we annoy each other almost every day. I have to have my own space and alone time and he always wants to interrupt me LOL.

     
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    Sweet.Sugar.Rose    December 11, 2010   VA

    LOL

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    At least once a day in a non-serious, roll my eyes kind of way. He legit pisses me off much less frequently.

     
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    Hyperventilate    June 15, 2013   Oklahoma City

    Never. Miffed? Sure. But not enough to annoy.

     
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    joya_aspera    December 2016  

    He is a little annoying on an approximately biweekly basis. I consider myself lucky, because most other people would get on my nerves much more often :)

     
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    blushingbride1013    August 10, 2013  

    Once a day, everyday when he eats with his mouth ope!! Omfg! Makes me Sick! But were getting better lol 

     
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    bowsergirl    January 11, 2014   USA - moving to UK

    @redheadem:  Ditto this.

    He probably lightly annoys me everyday, but it's only little stuff that I roll my eyes at, or things that are my problem and not a genuine fault of his - like how he always squeezes toothpaste from the top, so when I come in after him I have to shimmy everything up from the bottom. Nothing to be upset over - he just does little things differently than me!

    The kinds of things that make me angry though? Less often. It's hard to put an exact number on that, because it comes and goes! Sometimes there are weeks that he just ticks me off, but most of the time it is few and far between.

     
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    Ellegee    August 2012  

    He bites his nails and picks at his cuticles and it drives me up the wall. I hit him when he's doing it, like hard. 

     
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    bella128    May 18, 2013   Canada

    We pretty much have an ongoing "you drive me nuts but I love you" conversation... we're very different so its easy to have annoyances - he doesnt understand that I like sleeping in till 8 (is that really sleeping in!), I don't understand why he jumps out of bed at 5:30 am on Sunday morning cause he's tired of being in bed... you know, stuff like that.  But its all in love, no hate.  We get pissed off every once in a while, and then we get over it, and then something comes up again.  I mean really - living with someone and seeing them every day, you're going to get on each others nerves, that's life.  As long as it doesnt turn into anger and resentment and there's lots of good things that make up for it :)

     
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    Eckle    August 23, 2014   Minnesota, Wedding in Wisconsin

    SO has self esteem problems and I get super annoyed that he can't see how awesome he is. It's not like it's something I can fix for him either :/. The other thing he does regularly is hurt himself at work (works at a large hadware store) and not take care of the wounds properly. I just want him to use some anti-infectant his poor hands look sooo painful somedays

     
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    MissStumptown    September 13, 2013   Portland, OR

    I love my FI but man can he annoy me. If I listed everything he did, I'd be writing for a while. But it doesn't matter, because I love him so so much. He is creative and quirky and calms me down when I freak out, so I deal with any annoyances he wants to throw at me. 

     
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    alyssaC    July 11, 2015   Colordo Springs, Co

    Have you ever heard the saying "True love is wanting to kill someone but you don't do because you would miss them too much?"  Yeah story of my life, he annoys the living daylights out of me but I love him so damn much and he so dang cute I can't help but laugh at it all and give him a kiss.

     
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    fzesguer    November 30, 2013   Northern California

    Usually not very much but just recently when te wedding planning started getting serious (putting deposits down, etc.), he annoys me almost everyday!

    I'm planning everything w/out a planner and I've made this massive timeline/to do list. Every time I ask him to do something, like confirm his final guest list w/ his parents go together to get marriage license (hall of records is 2 mins away, process takes 20 mins tops), he refuses! I don't nag and I give him enough notice for things that need to be done.

    But he always says, "it doesn't need to be right this very second!" I always tell him that according to my timeline it does need to happen at least by the end if this week because I go to school full time and I work almost 50hrs/week! I don't want these little things that are always required before I can move on to another task, pile up last minute. Grrrr so annoying!

     
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    Swizzle    October 14, 2013  

    all the time. He thinks its funny when i have little freak outs. But he knows when im not in the mood. 

     
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    Sunfire    September 2012   US

    Strangely, although many, many other people highly annoy me, so far DH has never annoyed me since we've been together.  I may have annoyed him just a little, teeny-tiny bit a time or two, though.  Innocent

     
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    allyfally    April 26, 2014   Louisville, KY

    Daily. lol. Rarely anything serious though. I tend to just roll my eyes and move on.

     

     
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    TexasSpringBride        Texas

    FI calls me his calamity Jane pain in the ass, because Im clumsy and we spent several dates in the hospital due to injuries and my overbearing apologies for ruining dates. I get hurt, we end up at the hospital and I endlessly apologize.

    He gets annoyed when I apologize for something that was completely accidental. 

    So Im sure I annoy him to no end. The only thing he does that annoys me is that since he bought me a car for my birthday he insist on washing it every single week and he wont let me do it.

     
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    maugerette06        Australia

    Oh, yes.

    The most recent one was yesterday (Wednesday Australian time), actually.

    I've been sick with tonsillitis since Friday, and I haven't been to work all week. Anyone who's had tonsillitis knows how much fun it is, right? Yesterday, FI called in sick and stayed home. No, not to look after me (I don't need him to), but because he just didn't feel like going to work. So he slept in bed all day.

    WHAT. THE. HELL. You are NOT sick, why are you invading my private dying time?!

     
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    Lyndzo    August 25, 2012   Milton, ON EDD Jan 12/2014

    Every day and I am sure I annoy him too. But that's love. LOL.

     
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    strawbs    May 15, 2012  

    I'm known in my friend circle as someone who is very opinionated and easily pissed off and annoyed, so lol for him to only really annoy me once or twice a month is pretty miraculous

     
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    subtlebee    January 1, 2017  

    well we liv an hour away and are busy so when we are together its less than most people here. still, unless he's drumming and i have a headache he never annoys me.

     
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    drummerbride    October 19, 2013   Winnipeg

    We live together, so getting on eachothers nerves and being able to push eachothers buttons are a given.

     
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    SecretBee23    December 31, 2013  

    At least every day. I swear he does it on purpose! lol

     
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    lanalnoco    July 5, 2013  

    Last night I kicked him out of the kitchen while I was making him his lunch for today. I  told him a few times he was bothering me, and that he has nooo business being irritating while I'm doing something nice for him. Finally I said "GET OUT! We need a 10 minute break!" haha! He went off to our bedroom all wounded, but when I went in 10 minutes later we were fine. Sometimes I just need him out of my face haha!

     
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    jmaze    June 21, 2014  

    Never. We are ver much alike and get along very well. 

     
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    malouloune    July 19, 1993   Miami Florida

    LOL it's so funny i see this thread 2 seconds after i told how annoying he is lol but i love. He's guy therefore an idiot therefore always annoying the s*** out of me but i love him :) it's not a bad thing i wish it wasn't that often but oh well for better or worse

     
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    SouthernGirl    March 15, 2014   Alabama

    Almost everyday. But as other Bees have said, it's nothing serious, usually something I roll my eyes at or laugh about later. I've very rarely been pissed at him though. 

     
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    missrobots    April 30, 2011  

    Every time I walk into the kitchen and he's put his dishes on the counter instead of hte dishwasher. I haven't been able to nag that out of him yet, and fear I probably never will.

     
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    Jellybones    September 1, 2014  

    He annoys me several times a day. I mean like when he's trying to be a pest. Tickling or touching that one spot on my neck that gives me shivers, or just generally being silly with the intent to get a rise or an eye roll out of me. I get him back for that stuff though. and then he gets me back and our little revenge ploys continue to escalate and before you know it, one of us is covered in shaving cream and the other is soaking wet. It's a madhouse.

    When we're acting like responsible adults, the only thing that really bothers me is that he'll tell me he'll do something like unload the cutlery basket and it will sit there for 2 days until he actually gets around to it.

     
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    dkacerek    September 22, 2012   NJ

    I'd rather have someone annoying me on a regular basis than no one around to annoy me...

     

     
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    throughthebarricades    September 29, 2013   Canada

    @yanamari:  Depends how you define 'annoy'. I said frequently because yeah, usually there's at least one minor thing that he does that bugs me each day. But then again we live and work together and see each other a LOT so I am not sure it's a bad thing. I definitely annoy him every day.

    If you're talking bigger things then I'd say less frequently... but minor annoyances all the time lol.

     
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    lealorali    June 28, 2013   Upstate NY

    He forgets things like to take the chicken out of the freezer and maybe to get milk. Guess that's not too bad!

     

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