(Closed) How Often Does Your SO Hang Out With His Friends?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How Often Does Your SO Hang Out With His Friends?
    Once a month : (40 votes)
    37 %
    About 2 times a month : (15 votes)
    14 %
    Once a week : (28 votes)
    26 %
    2-3 times a week : (23 votes)
    21 %
    4-6 times a week : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Everyday : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    My fiance doesn’t have many friends in the area where we live.  Once a year he gets together with his college buddies but I wouldn’t mind him hanging out with some friends a little more… 🙂

    Post # 4
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    868 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    So does mine. I dont even hang out with my friends that much..so I think its kind of a a lot too!

    Post # 5
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    11327 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I voted 1/month because that was the lowest option haha. He doesn’t really hang out with his friends a whole lot at all! They have a traveling poker game that is sometimes every other week but more often every other month… and the random paintball day or game at a bar… but i’d say like 8 times/year is probably about right.

    Post # 6
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    2116 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Once or twice a week. We hang out with them on weekends mostly since Kingy’s work schedule is so hectic. Pretty soon it will be zero times a week and I’ll feel bad for stealing him and taking him back to my country.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    my husband has no good friends because he’s a workaholic and then spends any other free time with me.  i’m not sure how i feel about this lol

    he has this one guy friend who is basically like my buddy too (this guy was a witness at our courthouse wedding) and my husband only really hangs with him when i go out of town to see my mom or dad.  he just goes to his place and they play video games.

    other than that, the only people my husband hangs with are my friends who are like ‘our friends’ and it’s when i plan something for us.  he’s kind of antisocial and just likes to make money and be by himself or with me.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    They have a once a week standing “date” where they hang out and have dinner. They are more like brothers than friends though. He has known the “newest” friend in the group for over 20 years. 

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    FH’s friends are over EVERY DAY. He gets off work at three and likes to work out, play hockey, play videos games, etc, so they come over everyday. I am a student and I work, so I’m pretty busy. But when I want them to leave, I just tell him and then they leave. They leave pretty early on their own anyway– they don’t stay all evening like they used to. Also, it’s not the same people every day. Some come over more often than others, but he has A LOT of friends.

    Post # 10
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Like @Corgitales, I voted once a month since there wasn’t a lower option. FI only has 2 friends and they both have kids so he doesn’t get to hang out with them very often. One of his best friends happens to be married to one of my best friends (we set them up) so we do see them on occasion but they have a 4 month old who pretty much drains them. 

    Post # 11
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Where is the option for “never”? Seriously. Between school, work, more school, and more work, wedding planning, and his strange desire to actually spend time with the woman he plan on merrying he doesn’t have any time! Poor guy… alos all his friend have either remained in AZ, moved to another state or across the state (and in TX that might as well be another state) or have dropped off the face of the earth. I feel sor him! He needs some guy time to just chill!!!

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    Once a week at the minimum.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Usually about once a week. During the week we usually have one night where we go to a friends house or have friends over. Its not necessarily the same night for us. Then on the weekends DH and I might go out with his friends together or he will hang out with his friends alone.

    Post # 14
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I also chose once a month because it was the lowest option. My SO doesn’t drink and most of his friend do so they rarely hang out unless its at the race track during the summer (which I consider more work than hanging out). Or, if he does hang out with them, its usually with me because I will have a beer with them.

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    J rarely hangs out with his buddies anymore.  They’re all on different levels these days.  But I voted for once a month.  I’m sure he wishes it was more, but I also don’t find some of them to be the greatest influences.  Is it wrong of me to be glad?  Hah.

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We have the same friends. Seriously.

    We hang out with them on the weekends and occasionally during the week.

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