How old are your flower girls/Page Boys

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Our flower girl is nine and our ring bearer is 4.  I think 2 1/2 is pretty young.  It is totally fine and will be adorable – but don’t have expectations of him following directions or walking down the aisle himself 🙂  Sure will make for some adorable pics though!


Post # 4
672 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Zsa_Zsa:  my nephew will be 2yrs 8mths at the time of my wedding. I think it depends on what style of wedding you’re having and what you’re expectations are. Be prepared that at that age they can be temperamental and refuse to participate if they feel intimidated by the strange surroundings and crowds. I’m having a laid back destination wedding so I’m fine with him flipping out/wandering off/breaking into dance, etc 🙂

Post # 5
2851 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Flower girl is 7 and ring bearer is 10.

2 might be too young, but whatevs! If he cooperates that’s great, if he doesn’t, just be prepared.

Post # 6
2661 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Our ring bearers–they’re twins!–will be 8, and our flower girl will be 9.

2 1/2 might be a bit young, but will be super adorable! Just be prepared for a toddler meltdown. My sister was a flower girl when she was 3…she needed to be bribed to get down the aisle lol

Post # 7
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

My flower girl will be 5 and my junior bridesmaid 13.

Post # 8
4468 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Zsa_Zsa:  Our flower girl was 22 months. She had a little help, but did pretty well! It depends on the child- I think 2 1/2 should be ok?

Post # 9
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Flower girl will just have turned 6 and her brother will be 8. 

I really don’t know much about kids so I don’t know what a 2.5 year old can do.

Post # 10
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Our flower girl was a little over 3, and our ring bearer was almost 9!

The flower girl did a better job than the ring bearer did!

Post # 11
20 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

My one ringbearer will be 4 and 1/2, my other ring bear won’t even be 2 and my flowergirl will just be 2

Post # 12
8518 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Zsa_Zsa:  I think as long as he has an older kid holding his hand then he should be fine. But if he’s walking alone, I wouldnt go in with high expectations.

Post # 13
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i had a 2 year old, a 2.5 year old, and a 5 year old.  they will be fine!

Post # 14
3696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Our flower girl was 3 and she did just fine 🙂 

one of my BMs did walk with her and hold her hand. 

Post # 15
1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

2 year 8 month flower girl. Though she looks about 4 lol havent decided on ring bearer yet (may not have one) 

Post # 16
1721 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Zsa_Zsa:  I think kids that young add so much character to a ceremony! A friend of mine had her 2 year old godson as the ring bearer, and he was so cute.  He walked about halfway down the aisle, saw his mom and ran to her. It was super cute. Our ring bearers will be 5 and 7 and flower girls will be 10

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