Post # 1
So this is kind of a spinoff from another thread, it asked if you could orgasm from clitoral stimulation or penetration.
I’ve heard before that a woman reaches her sexual prime later on in life so I’m wondering: If you weren’t able to orgasm through penetration early in life, what age did it start happening for you? Do you feel it was because your partner got better at sex or was your body responding differently to the stimulation?
I don’t want to be a creeper, but I am curious about this! I hope it’s something that maybe develops later in life. 🙂
(If it did develop because you feel your body was different, what made it change? Pregnancy? etc?)
Post # 3
@Equine_Breeder: I was 24, and had been having sex for years before that, so I thought it was never gonna happen. Lo and behold, it happened when I least expected. I needed to relax, personally. Now it’s pretty easy. THANK GOODNESS. My issues were pretty much in my head, and I needed to feel completely comfortable with my partner, which was rarely the case with previous relationships. It was a trust thing for me.
Post # 5
ummm… how about never? that needs to be added to the poll, thanks! haha
Post # 6
In the kitchen with his parents in the front room. He didn’t even touch me, just leant me over and stuck it in. I came in seconds.
I was very impressed and FI was well proud of himself. I guess it was the excitement of having people very close by and that thing of being ‘taken’
Post # 7
Just so the majority of us can vote (because polls are oddly satisfying), how about adding a ‘never have’ option?
Post # 8
The vast majority of women do not have orgasm from penetration alone, unless they are using a position that gives enough stimulus, such as woman on top where she is able to control the pressure on the clitoris.
Post # 9
I’ve had lots of orgasms *during* penetration, but not *from* penetration. I doubt I ever will but it would be a pleasant surprise.
Thus my vote is “never”.
Is this orgasm shaming?!?!? Just kidding.
Post # 10
I did the first time I had sex at.. 18.
I think the thrill of the moment did it… as I’ve aged, I learned that reaching orgasm is something that takes just as much mental work as physical.
Post # 11
@winstonchurchill: I can never resist a good poll for some reason! 😉
@cdncinnamongirl: haha hardly!! This is a desperate “will it magically happen someday” thread 😉
Post # 13
Still waiting! But I’m not optimistic that it’s gonna happen. Oh well! Not a huge deal to me!
Post # 14
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17. I don’t know what changed , I didn’t realize until after I was like whoa! Ha ha.
Post # 15
I’m in my late 40s (starting menopause) and I haven’t noticed a great difference in that over the years, other than being more experienced.
When it happens *during* (as opposed to “due to”) penetration, it is almost always because I get clitoral stimulation as well, either by getting the angle right so I can rub it against him, or him getting his fingers down. Or on rare occasions, from nipple stimulation. I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed from the penetration itself, without any clit or nipple action. I don’t really care, an O is an O and isn’t that what the clitoris is for?
Post # 16
At least we aren’t all alone. And now there’s plenty of research out there that shows it!