(Closed) How on earth can I keep calm with this craziness?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
14498 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Just do your best to ignore her.  Don’t let her drama stop you from enjoying your last two weeks.  You have alot of stuff to do this week and next week with the family so just do your best to put her stuff out of your mind.  You may also talk to one of your family members to take care of any last minute drama that may come your way, I am sure one of your cousins will want to help out.  Or you could somehow hook her up with the friend that is coming to visit, maybe they can bounce this stuff off eachother..hmmmm.


Post # 4
1013 posts
Bumble bee

have a glass of wine and take the night off with no wedding talk!! you sound worn out in general!!

Post # 6
468 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

This is horrible and I agree don’t let her drama ruin your day! Get a glass of wine and celebrate you! πŸ™‚

Post # 8
46258 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I used to work in the ER. We had an inservice on dealing with stress. I have never forgotten the visual that we were given to help us learn not to react to remarks made by other people.

Picture yourself wearing your veil. It covers you from head to toe. Nothing can penetrate that veil. Nothing she says can have any effect on you.

Just deal with the things that have to be done and ignore the slings and arrows.

Post # 10
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Awwww! I hate to hear this, I remember waaaay back when you said she had stirred up some drama. I hate to hear that it’s still continued.

I’ll agree with others, just try your best to let it roll off your shoulders, think about you and future hubby (!!) and vent and laugh it off with friends…it’s really all you can do. Just please try to let it not get to you, and not ruin your special day!

You’re so close! The only thing you should have to think about is marrying your man and having a blast while doing it.

I hope your wedding goes off without a hitch and is everything you ever dreamed of!


Post # 12
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Evie19: I totally understand, it is a HIGHLY emotional time and the smallest things can get to you if you let them.

 Awww, that sounds like so much fun! It makes me nostalgic for our wedding week! All the events, etc leading up to the big day were so special and it was all so fun.

I cannot believe you are getting married in, what? 15 days?!


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