(Closed) How open are you with your boyfriend/fiance/husband?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How open are you with your boyfriend/fiance/husband?
    Really open - we can talk about anything and everything : (257 votes)
    89 %
    Kind of open - we can talk about some things but there are others I'm not comfortable discussing : (33 votes)
    11 %
    Not open - I find it really hard to talk about most things with him : (0 votes)
  • Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    There is pretty much nothing that I wouldn’t tell my partner. Except for small white lies, like if he got a bad haircut; I would say it looked great.

    Other than that, we are both open books. I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love feeling completely comfortable and accepted around him.

    Post # 5
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    4352 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I tell my FI more than he wants to know lol.

    Post # 6
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    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    As PP said, I tell FI more than he really wants to know. Every. Single. Detail.

    Wink

    Post # 7
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    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We’re laid back best mates as well as husband and wife, so we talk about everything. We know each others’ past sexual antics, know our embarrassing stories, joke about farts, discuss fantasies, there’s nothing off limits really.

    Post # 8
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    1114 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Mr CL and I tell each other everything, and I always have – even before we were together.  Like asscherlover, I’m sure I tell him more than he wants to know.  Before I started taking medication to control them, he frequently got pissed off rants about my awful periods in pretty graphic detail.  It’s a wonder he can put up with it!

    Post # 9
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    @asscherlover:  Haha! SOOOOOO THIS for me, too!!!

    Post # 10
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    11273 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    i feel like i can tell him everything and anything.

    Post # 11
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    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’m pretty open with my Fi when it comes to my feelings and our relationship, but some things I think he doesn’t need to know or rather vent/speak about to family and friends. So while I have no issues telling anything, I don’t feel that he needs to know everything, that is unless he ask and expresses som interest in knowing.

    Post # 12
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    484 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @asscherlover:  Ditto…I tell my hubby too much and probably show him too much too…(as in stuff that most people probably don’t do in front of each other for privacy) I’m an open book – you married me – you get all of me 🙂 hahaha

    Post # 13
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    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    If you cant be open with your husband or fiance maybe you should rething why you want to or did get married?!? 

    I can tell my husband everything, wouldnt have married him if I couldnt

    Post # 14
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    1359 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We have struggled with communication because we are both non-confrontational people and hate to say anything to one another that might be construed as criticism or cause hurt feelings. We’ve been working on this for years, though, and I feel like if something is bothering one of us, we come up with the courage to talk to the other about it. Our communication skills still aren’t perfect, but we’re worlds ahead of where we used to be.

    Post # 15
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    44 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    i tell my husband everything hes my husband soulmate and best friend

    Post # 16
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    2009 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    OP I wonder this on the bee constantly.

    I tell him everything.  He tells me everything.

    Nothing is off limits.  Bad haircuts, bad breath, less than stellar quickies, weight issues, bodily functions, personal histories, hair removal, girl stuff, all of it.

    I actually don’t believe many relationships can withstand not having this level of honesty.

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