(Closed) How Selfish Am I, Really?

posted 7 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Solo or FMIL??
    Go Solo. : (4 votes)
    15 %
    Take FMIL : (6 votes)
    22 %
    Taking FMIL on future fitting appointment is sufficient. : (17 votes)
    63 %
  • Post # 3
    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Go solo. There will be time to take Future Mother-In-Law 🙂

    And don’t forget to show us pics!

    Post # 4
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Go solo! I went back to my dress shop multiple times to show other members of my family that I wanted to see it. Do what makes you happy and take this time to enjoy it just for you. And then bring whoever you would like to your fittings.

    Post # 5
    242 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    First off, I’m jealous that your dress is here so quickly!  I’m still waiting for mine and it’s been 5 months 🙁

    That said, take, or don’t take, whoever you would like.  There will be plenty of time for her to see the dress later if you would rather go pick it up alone.  It’s really just up to you.

    Post # 6
    142 posts
    Blushing bee

    I would agree – go solo and then she’ll be there for the fittings, which is when you need an outside comment anyway


    Post # 7
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I think I would go solo if that’s what would make me happy! I am also close to my Future Mother-In-Law and am planning to have her involved in all things dress related since I don’t have my own mom to help me with these things, so I’m sure if I were in your position, I would go and make sure that she knew she would be included once the actual fittings start!

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