- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So 3 weeks ago I found THE dress, it was ordered, paid and signed for. Then the waiting began…. after a longgg 3 weeks yesterday I finally got the call that MY dress is in and ready to be picked up. I giddily asked if I could try it on while picking it up (I’ve been dying to get back into it!) They said YES. So I can’t wait. I am looking forward to getting my dress ALONE and eating it up with my eyes! I may even take my accessories and “jack” myself up.
Eeeeeerrrrrrkkkkk. Hold up, that is my conscious kicking in and saying “don’t you remember you invited Future Mother-In-Law to see the dress”!? So here’s what happened. I got my dress on my first wedding dress shopping experience, I didn’t expect to, it just happened. Future Mother-In-Law was not present. I felt kind of bad about that b/c I love Future Mother-In-Law and want her involved in as much as possible. So to make everything better, well to make my guilt ease, I told Future Mother-In-Law that she could attend my fittings with me so she could see the dress in person and she said she’d love to. NOTE I said fittings. Those won’t happen for a few months.
I am torn if I should invite Future Mother-In-Law to the pick up so she can see the dress OR if I should go solo and have some quality time just me and my dress.
Am I totally selfish for wanting some me, alone time with my dress and accessories?