How sexually satisfied are you?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How sexually satisfied are you?
    1 - I dread it. : (8 votes)
    3 %
    2 : (7 votes)
    2 %
    3 : (22 votes)
    7 %
    4 : (13 votes)
    4 %
    5 : (27 votes)
    9 %
    6 : (26 votes)
    9 %
    7 : (57 votes)
    19 %
    8 : (61 votes)
    21 %
    9 : (40 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    641 posts
    Busy bee

    I put myself at a solid 8. Not to imply there is room for improvement, but because things that turn me on and pique my interest at different times. Sometimes I want a session where you feel so incredibly connected, and then both end up laughing at the wet queef noises. Sometimes I want to really feel how much more powerful that me he is, and sometimes I want to feel completely in control. 

    Still, our sex life is the best I’ve ever had. He’s an incredibly attentative lover, and I’m always happy to roll in the sack with him. Unless I’ve eaten Indian food.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1259 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Sometimes it is a 10 for me. Alot of the times it is an 8 or 9. I can’t really complain.

    If I had to change somehting it would be the level of “romance”. Sometimes it is nice to be fast and kinda dirty lol but sometimes I feel like I need to slow him down and remind him that foreplay is important. I think we have created a good balance though. Sometimes we have the nice, slow sexy sex and sometimes it is the rough, sexy, let’s bang sex lol

    I love sex with my FI 🙂

    Post # 6
    Member
    1259 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @Mars62312:  Don’t get me wrong, we have our moments where I am like, “really? you’re done” or “let’s just finish this” LOL but that doesn’t happen very often. He is usually pretty receptive but he does need to be reminded from time to time. I think lots of guys are like that lol

    Post # 7
    Member
    1680 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I’ll bite. I rated us a 6, though I waivered between 6&7- when we have sex, it is amazing. He’s very in tune with me, attentive to my needs, and I always have a good time. It could improve though… I wish it was more spontaneous at times, I miss the romance on occassion, and I really wish we did it more often. I think my drive has picked up in the past few months and he hasn’t really matched it yet.  

    Post # 8
    Member
    721 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    8. I wish FI would be a little more spontanious.. Otherwise it’s great

    Post # 9
    Member
    2578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I voted a 3. Don’t get me wrong, the sex is awesome when we have it… but that’s the problem… we don’t.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1346 posts
    Bumble bee

    3, but SO knows that, and we’ve been working on it.

    Post # 11
    Member
    559 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I voted an 8 but maybe a 7….I sometimes wish he could last longer. I know that’s an easy fix but I feel like its a touchy subject.lol. And also I have a higher sex drive than him. I could go every day but its usually 2-3 times week. I feel like we’re young and it should be more.but sometimes there are those surprise weeks when its like 5 or 6 times! Yay!

    Post # 12
    Member
    2063 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Solid 8. I wish his sex drive was as high as mine and I was always initiating it 

    Post # 13
    Member
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’d say 8. My sex life with FI is by far the best sex I’ve known, he’s an incredible lover. But I didn’t put 10 because of 2 reasons : 1) I wish we would have sex more often like we used to, but right now we’re just having so much stress with both academics + lately many people died in my entourage and my grandma is dying too, so overall we’re not in the mood for sex right now. I know it’s temporary as we are both highly attracted to each other, but I miss it sometimes (but don’t have the energy for it, neither does he). And 2) well, contrary to some women, I wish my FI would finish faster ! Sometimes I’d like to just have this quick, intense and spontaneous intercourse, but it never happens. He can’t help but control himself. And honestly, when I’m tired, I don’t feel like having an hour-long sexual intercourse. I’d prefer a quickie then good night. 😉

    Post # 14
    Member
    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I voted 8.

    My SO is very good between the sheets. He’s sexy, loving, strong, aggressive, intense and (occasionally) romantic.

    I’d love it if my SO initiated more (I have a higher sex drive then he does) and I agree with @CarterLove:  “If I had to change somehting it would be the level of “romance”. Sometimes it is nice to be fast and kinda dirty lol but sometimes I feel like I need to slow him down and remind him that foreplay is important.

    Post # 15
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @brighteyedgirl:  I’m being nosy. How come? I’ve never met a man who wasn’t all over wanting to have sex. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I say 10. We have the same fetishes and fucked up sex brains. We have sex 5-7 times per week. I really have nothing to complain about. We have very open communication so we know what the other likes, doesn’t like, etc. 

    Sex is just as important to me as any other relationship factor. 

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