How should I address this bridal shower card?

posted 3 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
42117 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Even though the gift will likely be used by both of them, normally the gift is addressed to the bride as she is the one being showered. I sign my name as I was the one invited- not my SO.

I address the wedding gift to the two of them and sign the card from both of us.

In the end, I don’t think it really matters either way-how you address the card or how you sign the card.

Post # 4
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My shower was earlier this month, and it seemed that everyone did it differently. I think most of my fiance’s family wrote the cards to both of us. Yes, the bride is being showered, but most gifts are for the couple, so I don’t think it would really be offensive either way. Do whatever feels right for you and your relationship with the couple 🙂


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