(Closed) How should i walk down the Aisle? (long story)

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: How should i walk down the Aisle?
    Alone : (2 votes)
    14 %
    with my Dad : (0 votes)
    with my Step Dad : (9 votes)
    64 %
    with both my Dad and Step Dad : (3 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
    18645 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Honestly, I would walk with your step dad.  Your dad doesn’t seem to care much about his kids anymore.  I’m guessing part of it has to do with his new wife, but he should be responsible enough to keep in touch with his children no matter who else is in his life.

    Post # 4
    558 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think the giving away of the bride should be the honor of the person who has raised and supported you.  That sounds like your step dad. 

    Post # 5
    499 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    If it were me, which it isn’t, I’d walk down the aisle with your step-dad. I know you said you two fight, but it sounds like he has at least been there for you throughout your life.

    Post # 6
    18645 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    PS – My dad and I fought a lot growing up too, we were too alike.  But after my mother passed, I realized that I didn’t want to let stupid fights get in the way of my relationship with my dad.

    Post # 7
    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I agree with the other ladies…it sounds like your step-dad was the one who was really there to raise you and who you have gotten along with the majority of the time.  If it were me, I would ask your step-dad.

    Post # 9
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I would vote alone, because it doesn’t sound like either dad or step dad is really ‘there’ for you emotionally.

    Otherwise, are you close to your brothers? Have you considered asking one of them to walk you?

    Post # 10
    2562 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think your mom should walk you down the aisle. She seems like the most consistent and supportive person in the whole situation.

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