How soon after marrying did you have sex with your spouse?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How soon after marrying did you have sex with your husband (or wife)?
    We had sex after the ceremony and before the reception! : (3 votes)
    2 %
    We sneaked off during the reception for some nookie. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    We had sex the night we got married. : (76 votes)
    58 %
    We had sex the night we got married and it was our first time having sex with one another. : (9 votes)
    7 %
    The next day. : (25 votes)
    19 %
    A couple days later. : (11 votes)
    8 %
    A week or so. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    A couple weeks. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    We haven't had sex. : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 2
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    1400 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    After the reception, before the after party. I don’t remember if it was before or after our nap. It was some pretty tired sex lol, definitely not the best we’ve had, but damn it we did it! And it was fun.

    Post # 3
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    567 posts
    Busy bee

    countingstars:  as soon as we got to the hotel while the guests were having cocktails. we told the bridal party I needed to fix my makeup and we would be back shortly. they all knew what was  on and laughed when I came back with my makeup and hair looking messier than they were before we left. 

    Post # 4
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    667 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June, 2014

    countingstars:  we were exhausted. We waited til the morning after. We did have a nice bath together that night, though. But that was pretty much for my feet’s sake. More sweet and cuddly than hot and sexy.

    Post # 5
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    2330 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I am sort of between two – it was the next day but also our first time together!

    Post # 6
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    8916 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    We stayed up to like 4 am partying with friends the night night of our wedding and got pretty trashed, but we managed to get er done that night anyway…

    Post # 7
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    209 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m not married but mum /dad left for their honeymoon after the night do and had sex on the beach which is romantic I think x

    Post # 8
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    1110 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We had sex on our wedding night. After the reception we spent a few hours having drinks with some of our out of town guests at one of our favorite bars, then left earlier than everyone else to go back to the room.

    Post # 9
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    2330 posts
    Buzzing bee

    After the reception in our hotel room. We were supposed to hang out with friends staying in the hotel, but we were so tired and drunk when we got to the hotel we knew we either needed to do eet and go to bed, or hang out with them and not have sex at all that night. They were sloppy times, but we were like “we have to. it’s our wedding night!”. Best part is, every one of our friends who have since gotten married all admitted to being too drunk and/or tired to do it. We should’ve just gone to bed lol

    Post # 10
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    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    countingstars:  the next morning. There was too much going on the day of the wedding to sneak off and disappear for a hot minute. Then we got home and were so exhausted, we opened our gifts and passed out. Next morning I made him a nkce breakfast and then we got it on. Lol

    Post # 11
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    414 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    The night of the wedding after the reception. We were both exhausted and hungry, but we managed to stay awake long enough to eat and have some “average, but hey its great because we are married!” sex. The awesome married sex happened on the honeymoon later that week.

    Post # 12
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    2639 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I know a couple who had waited till marriage. They pulled over onto a side road between the ceremony and reception and had at it. 

    Post # 13
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    2065 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    countingstars:  wanted to in the limo but was chicken. stayed up till 4am and crashed out. did it in the morning 😉

    Post # 14
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    1878 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

    As soon as we got home (around 8 PM) we had sex, then we had sex again. Then we ordered pizza, because who actually eats at their wedding….then we had sex again. Our wedding night was our first time, and it was well worth the wait. 🙂

    Post # 15
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    528 posts
    Busy bee

    I would think that pulling over before the reception would be kind of interesting but awkward. I would feel like everyone at the reception would kind of know. There’s also the potential of getting caught by the police. 

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