Post # 1
I’m asking my 2 FSIL to do a reading in the ceremony. And my other fsil to be a greeter/hand out programs. I will also ask my brother to do the same. How soon do I ask them? My wedding is in December. Also..does the color of their dresses matter?
Post # 3
I’d ask them now… (no reason to wait, unless you’ll change your mind). And, no, I don’t think the color of their dresses matter, unless you want them to be matchy or match the bridal party.
Post # 4
yeah go ahead and ask them! there is not need to wait, and i dont think you need to worry about their dresses, they will only be up there for a minute or so, as long as they look nice i think that is all that matters.
Post # 5
You pick your readings and ask away – I was sitting up at 2 am four days before our wedding finalising the mass booklet, and I’ve no-one to blame but myself! You get that finalised and printed and it’s one more thing off the to-do list!
As for the dresses – if they’re not indecent and/or white, don’t worry about it. It’s really a small detail, and you’ll drive yourself mad if you try to micro-manage to that extent.