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How to address an invite to an entire family...

posted 2 years ago in Paper
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    Busy bee
    OfficeBride    2010  

    I feel really silly asking this, but with the worry of having guests bring more people than we intended to invite, I thought I'd check in with the hive...

    When sending out an invite to my extended family, how should I address it?  For instance, if it's my mom's brother (eg John Smith) and his family, do I address the envelope to:

    • "Uncle John and Family"
    • "Smith Family"
    • Or write out each family members name?

    Also, I'm really liking the idea of the "We have reserved __ seats in your honour," which I suppose is one way to avoid the extra unwanted guest :)

     

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    If you're inviting the entire family (parents and kids), I would say "The Smith Family."

     
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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    I plan on going Mr. John Smith and Family. I don't want to get confused when I'm "writing" out the invites/envelopes whom I've already covered.

     
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    Lorienne    January 1, 2016   Los Angeles, CA

    Agreed, it could either be "The Smith Family" or "John Smith and Family" and I think "We have reserved X seats in your honor" is a terrific idea! You'll have to let us know if that really does ward off unwanted guests.   Wink

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I also really like "we have reserved "x" seats in your honor" and filling out the number.

    Are you addressing the outer or inner envelope?

    If you have both, on the outer I'd put:  The Smith Family

    And on the inner, write out each name: John, Jane, Sue, Sally... etc.

     

     
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    bearcub    September 2009   Portland / La Serena, Chile

    I wrote out both parents names -

    John and Jane Doe & family

    when there was only 1 kid (or if the kid was an adult), I addressed it to all 3 -

    John, Jane, and Mike Doe

     

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