how to ask best friend if she is having a wedding party?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@heythatsnotmyname:  Don’t ask about the wedding party because there is no way to do that without seeming pushy. I would offer to throw a bacerollette party though! Just say that you would love to host a party in her favor and let her know how thrilled you are for her! 

Post # 4
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Definitely skip any mention of the bridal party. Just say you’d like to help throw her a shower/her bachelorette.

Post # 5
6678 posts
Bee Keeper

You have plenty of time.  I’d say nothing right now and would wait to see what she’s planning.  If it’s small, you would not invite people to a shower or bachelorette party if they aren’t going to be invited to the wedding.  Once you know, of course you can offer, even if you haven’t been asked to be in a wedding party.  For all you know, she’s not having a wedding party,  is having one attendant only etc.  I would not mention anything about your role in the wedding, that’s for her to bring up.

Post # 6
3978 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Do not ask. If she has a party and you are to be apart of it, she will ask. 

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