How to ask FSIL to be a BM.

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7030 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Ibblet:  Pay a visit with your fiance. Fiance excuses himself for a while (has to go to the store to buy drinks, perhaps?) and you ask her. Or ask her while fiance is there, if you want.

Another idea is taking her out for lunch. But I asked both my bridesmaids at their homes. I think in a house you’re both free to react however you want.

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