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How to ask MOH to step down..

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    MrsCox2B    March 13, 2011   Delaware

    I posted last week about the horrific experience I had as the MOH is my supposed best friends wedding back in November. I have not spoken to her since her wedding and dont really plan on speaking to her in the future.

    She lives in another state and the only time I ever see her is when I make the effort to fly there and see her. She doesnt call, text, email me, whatsoever anymore and I honestly feel the frienship is over.

    How do I ask her to not be in the wedding? Or do I tell her at all given the fact that we dont even speak?

     
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    Rosiebear    September 4th 2010   Somerville MA

    Have you talked to her about how you feel? Your feelings are valid, and it is possible that the friendship is over, but it may be beneficial for you to at least talk to her about how you feel and get her perspective. Some people can be very thoughtless just out of their own ignorence about a situation. Good luck!

     
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    MrsCox2B    March 13, 2011   Delaware

    I called her about a week after her wedding and she again was very rude and hurtful. We ended the phone call on not so good terms and havent spoken since.

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    I've had a similar situation. I asked a girl to be my MOH after she moved here from living out of state. We were best friends in high school and kind of re-connected when she moved back down here. She said she was staying for good, so that's why I asked if she'd become my MOH. Well, we kind of drifted while she was living down here & then without even telling me...she decided to move back home to her family. I should've seen it coming, but we didn't even really talk about the fact that she wouldn't be in my wedding anymore. She just moved and we haven't talked since.

    From the sounds of it, it seems like you & your MOH don't even speak right now...so I'd honestly just let it go. If you aren't talking at all, and haven't...then obviously she has no want to be in your wedding, and she probably doesn't even think she's in it anymore. That's about what I did & I still haven't spoken to ex-MOH since.

     

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