(Closed) How to ask MOH to step down..

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Have you talked to her about how you feel? Your feelings are valid, and it is possible that the friendship is over, but it may be beneficial for you to at least talk to her about how you feel and get her perspective. Some people can be very thoughtless just out of their own ignorence about a situation. Good luck!

Post # 5
2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’ve had a similar situation. I asked a girl to be my Maid/Matron of Honor after she moved here from living out of state. We were best friends in high school and kind of re-connected when she moved back down here. She said she was staying for good, so that’s why I asked if she’d become my Maid/Matron of Honor. Well, we kind of drifted while she was living down here & then without even telling me…she decided to move back home to her family. I should’ve seen it coming, but we didn’t even really talk about the fact that she wouldn’t be in my wedding anymore. She just moved and we haven’t talked since.

From the sounds of it, it seems like you & your Maid/Matron of Honor don’t even speak right now…so I’d honestly just let it go. If you aren’t talking at all, and haven’t…then obviously she has no want to be in your wedding, and she probably doesn’t even think she’s in it anymore. That’s about what I did & I still haven’t spoken to ex-MOH since.

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