Post # 1
My flower girl is my cousin. She will be 11 years old on my wedding. I understand people will say she is too old or could be a junior bm. I have all my bms and my cousin is the only youngest girl in my family. So, how would/did you ask your flower girl to be in your wedding? Thank you!!!
Post # 2
you could send her a cookie bouquet .
Post # 3
amelliafay: How close are you to her and her family?
If you’re not especially close, I’d ask via her parents. If you’re very close (and sure the family will be at the wedding), I say just go around there and ask in person. (If you’re not 100% sure they’re attending, then check with her parenrs first, so you don’t get her hopes up for nothing).
I do agree that junior bridesmaid is more appropriate at that age. A JBM doesn’t need to be paired with a groomsman, so it doesn’t matter that you have all your BMs already. It just means she’s like a flower girl, but wears a dress more like a bridesmaid.