How to ask my flower girl to be in my wedding?

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

you could send her a cookie bouquet  .

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

amelliafay:  How close are you to her and her family?

If you’re not especially close, I’d ask via her parents. If you’re very close (and sure the family will be at the wedding), I say just go around there and ask in person. (If you’re not 100% sure they’re attending, then check with her parenrs first, so you don’t get her hopes up for nothing).

I do agree that junior bridesmaid is more appropriate at that age. A JBM doesn’t need to be paired with a groomsman, so it doesn’t matter that you have all your BMs already. It just means she’s like a flower girl, but wears a dress more like a bridesmaid.

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