- Miss Emily Marie
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My FI and I decided on 3 attendants a piece. I had already picked out my girls knowing they were my best friends, they were the biggest support to me and to us as a couple, and I trust them completely to be there for me during the wedding process.
A good friend of mine from high school and I had grown apart during college. She hasn’t really made the effort to try and see me when I moved an hour away for school, she always waited until I came home. However, she is the person who introduced me and FI. but after FI and I started dating she and her bf broke up so she took her frustrations out on my FI because he was her ex’s friend. She blew things way out of proportion and caused a lot of unnecessary drama and they haven’t seen each other or really spoken since despite the hurt feelings being resolved.
Anyways before we got engaged, she made a comment like “oh I will be your MOH” and after we got engaged she said something to the effect of “I better be in on planning your wedding”. I am very sound in my choice of who to include in my bridal party, but at the same time I still consider her a friend and don’t want to hurt her feelings.
Help me out Bees, what should i say or do?