- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
Long story short I hadn’t spoken to my mother for 8 months until a few weeks ago. It was for a ridiculous reason and it wasn’t me not speaking to her she wasn’t speaking to me. She’s pretty crazy and always has been. Very emotionally and at times physically abusive while we were growing up. I got engaged at the end of May. I decided out of respect I should tell her before I told everyone else. She basically said she didn’t care and didn’t want to be a part of anything involving me or my wedding. It’s what I expected to hear. The rest of my family was THRILLED and so excited for me. My FH is an awesome man and I couldn’t ask for a better person to spend forever with. Now that all of my Mother’s friends whom I still speak with have been telling her that can’t believe her actions and what she is doing she has decided to attempt to be a part of my wedding and life again. To little to late but she’s my Mom so obviously I am not going to hold a grudge just keep my safe distance from her. I”m getting married on a beach in FL we live in Illinois then having a formal reception when we get back from our honeymoon cruise. The only person attending the actual wedding is my sister. She’s walking me down the aisle and will remain in FL until we get back from the cruise and we all fly back together. So my Mom asked the other day if she was invited to the wedding. I said no it’s just going to be FH and I. She was offended but let it go. She and my sister do NOT get along at all. My sister is the only one that doesn’t put up with my moms crap. My Mother is not going to take it well that my sister will be the only one attending the wedding. I haven’t told her yet. How do I tell her? Or do I even have to tell her?