- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
It has been a crazy month for us!! FI was added on the house as per his mom request, the lawyer did not tell us that they need to notifiy the bank (there is a lien to the house by the BIL). Fast forward, we were under great stress to decide rather or not to keep the house, and we have to sell my investment condo in order to get approve (we are refinancing his house for potentially 500-600K)… Not to mention the brother was on us every freaking night and create so much tension between us because his brother has 170K lien on the house and want money from us ASAP……
anyways, thanks to some great friends and the brother agreed to sell it to us at a lower range price (530K)and my friend helped me to find a buyer real quick… so everything will be resolved within this month
It’s not over yet but the whole thing ruin our wedding mood, on top of that, FI’s new job is draining him daily. He lost so much weight….
It’s once in a life time and I want to make sure we both enjoy it. Can bees suggest any idea how to bring the romance and wedding mood back? I don’t want to finish off the weddigng because we have to but we enjoy it