- 6 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
I am not new but due to people who like to stalk me online (fiance’s brothers gf) I have created a fake account so that there are no issues.
Here is the situation. My Fiance brother who is also the Best Man in our wedding betrayed his trust. My Fiance is beyond angered, hurt, upset and doesn’t want to speak to him anymore.
The jist of what happend.
His brother had a gf that nobody in the family likes/liked. They were constantly breaking up (been going out for 3 years and fight all the time and have broken up over 6 timed, 4 times over the last 2 months). The last time that they broke up his brother said it was over for good and figured that nobody in the family liked her which made it easier. He wanted my Fiance to confirm that. He said that it wasn’t his place because he didn’t want anything coming back to him or it to bite him in the ass later. His brother said it was his place to say so my Fiance told him in confidence that no one liked/likes her.
His brother hadn’t spoken to him for a few weeks and he finds out through his father that they are back together. His brother also confronted his parents as to why they didn’t like his gf. So their parents asked my Fiance why he had told him that (they told the brother they have no problem with her but we know otherwise).
So ontop of getting back together with this girl and not having a backbone and spine and changing who is while he is around this girl, he also broke my Fiance trust with him by saying something out of confidence.
He wants to confront his brother and tell him how pissed he is but also does not feel as though he should be the Best Man anymore because he can not trust him and doesn’t want his brothers gf to be involved in anything either. He knows that after he confronts his brother the situation will just get worse because his brother is beyond sensitive, basically a woman with stuff like that. He would like to ask his best friend instead to be the Best Man.
Thought about this…. suggestions. Anything is welcomed.