- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
My closest co-worker, we share an office and it’s just the two of us in charge of a program, is the type of person that blows hot and cold. One day she loves me and wants to talk non stop, and other days she freezes me out, ignores me, and slams doors. This has been going on for 3 years so it’s not like it’s just bad day, this is her personality.
I’ve tried talking to her but she gets very defensive and it doesn’t go anywhere. Mostly I’ve just taken to ignoring it. But it wears me down.
But how do you deal with someone like that? I’ve also noticed that she only does this to me – the days that she is freezing me out she is still syrupy sweet to other people. It makes a horribly toxic work environment. I literally never know which side of her I’m going to get.