(Closed) How to deal with a jealous “family” member…

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that if your brother doesn’t want to marry her, he won’t.  Did he ask her to marry him?  Because if he didn’t, she’ll get shot in the foot pretty badly for assuming…  just my thoughts. 

Post # 4
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31 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I would absolutely love to see her try to take that child away from him. If they have any kind of custody agreement, which they should, she could be charged with kidnapping. Tell your brother to get to the courts asap, and file for custody. And then tell him to leave her. She sounds absolutely crazy. And don’t worry about her wedding. You said she “tried” to plan it before, and chances are he isn’t going to go through with it…doesn’t sound like he wants to be with her very much…

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Well  as much as she’s allegedly insane,  it takes two people to be in a relationship. So clearly your brother s gaining something out of this relationship. I understand how frustrating it is deal with needy, insecure, jealous people, you are giving her too much power in your life and feeding her need for attension by getting physically sick over this. Manage your expections and simply focus on your own planning. There’s really nothing to lose sleep over. 

Post # 9
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@peachbaby4008: Trust me when I teill you, I know the feeling all to well. For me, recently I had to admit there are so many areas in my own life that I’m falling short on, and sometimes its just easier to focus on other people’s short comings, than my own. Nothings wrong with getting temporarily caught up in the pettiness, we’re only human. It happens, but just as long as we don’t dwell too much on their foolishness. Good luck.

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