(Closed) how to decide on guest list ?

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Closer to the time when I actually send out invites (in about a year), I will reevaluate the single friends and if they have a significant other at the time they will be invited (due to etiquette). I am sending one invitation per couple and will also be sending them to my bridal party just because I don’t really see why not. I would like one even if I was in the wedding. You need to send an invitation to everyone invited.

Post # 5
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Each guest above the age of 18 is supposed to receive their own invitation. Families with children under the age of 18 can receive one invitation. Couples living together can recieve one invitation. Single guests above the age of 18 are suppose to get a +1.

I agree with you about the +1 situation, even though its a heated topic on the bee. If your friends have SOs, then I would give them a plus one. Otherwise, I would not. That’s up to you, though. It is proper etiquette for all single guests to get a +1 if that’s what you’re looking for, though :). Hopefully any bees can correct me if I’m wrong on any of my info! 

Post # 6
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@WannaBeeMrsB:  +1  Although, I only gave +1s to those couples that live together or are engaged (married couples/families were sent one invitation with all their names on it).

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