(Closed) how to get my man to want more sex from me

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee

Porn, sex toys, role play….if all else fails…a doctor’s appointment

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Start by asking him what he likes and go off of that. Also I would talk more and find out if it is just low sex drive or if maybe he has confidence issues or something else.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

How about going to the Dr? I thought there was a pill or something for low testosterne guys?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I would try talking to him to see what works and maybe dropping hints earlier in the evening to prepare him

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Dbl

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ashasmith:  does he truly have low testosterone?  has he been to a doctor?  can he take something for this?

other issues to consider are diet, exercise, smoking, drinking, stress, etc.  these could have a lot to do with it too.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@ashasmith:  I think he needs to put some more effort in! I’m not always in the mood but that doesn’t mean I don’t try. How many heart to heart chats have you had about this issue? 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

First he needs to see a doctor to get the testoserone thing figured out and second maybe try some lingerie? My husband loves lingerie and says it totally seals the deal for him every time. Also maybe try getting him worked up in the morning with some sexy texts that last sparringly through the day so when he get gets home, he can’t wait another minute!

Post # 12
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Newbee

Agreed that he may need to see a doctor. They make testosterone injections for a reason! Does he suffer from anxiety/depression? That makes things worse sometimes. Plus if he treats that it may be really good for your sex life!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

Experiement, experiement, experiement. And if it doesnt work, doctors trip.

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