- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
OK so here’s a little back ground info, my mother kicked me out about three years ago and the last time I talked to her was about two years ago when it was two days before her wedding and she asked if I would be in her wedding. Which she was only doing so she would look good to her FI’s family that was coming from out of town, keep in mind this was the first time I had spoken to her since she had kicked me out a year before. I resepctfully declined but said I would love to go and watch but she flipped out like her normal self. While I was living with her I was not allowed to speak to my grandmother because she didnt speak to her so I started speaking to her again when I got kicked and low and behold so did my mother. My grandmother believed about what I told her because she said she knew how my mother was and she needed to get some help but about a year ago I deleted my facebook and my grandma messaged my Fiance and asked why I had blocked her and he told her what I had done and she didnt believe him so when I tried to talk to her she flippe out and said I was lying and shed always love me but bye. So I just left her alone and then my great grandmother called which was really weird bc she never does and all she did was ask a bunch of questions like are you married yet, have you graduated college yet, where you living and things like that and then hung up so I knew my grandma and mother had put her up to it. Then about a week later my grandma called to ask me to pay my tazes on the car she helped me get when my mother kept my other one and told me she always loved me and always will. Well if you havent picked it up yet my grandma is crazy but she takes her medicine SOMETIMES and my mother is crazy and needs to get on some. Sorry so long but here comes where I need the advice….for my wedding I would love for my great grandma and maybe my grandma to be there but I refuse to have my mother there because of everything she did to me and I am still not sure as to have my grandma there because her sister my aunt will be and they dont get along anymore and I dont want drama there and if my grandma hasnt been taking her meds she will attack my aunt or do something terrible again and I cant invite my great grandma because shell tell my grandma and that will hurt her feelings. But my family is REDICULOUSLY crazy I am going for a drama free wedding day. I have had enough drama in my years with them and I just dont want to hurt anyones feelings. I know my grandma loves me very much but I just dont know what to do. I was maybe thinking waiting until a few months before the wedding and seeing if my grandma has talked to me anymore or just have my aunt sit in the reserved sits since she has helped me alot through this and understands my family. I really just need some advice thanks so much bees if youve continued to read this.