(Closed) How to handle family member who CONSTANTLY complains?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh, so you’ve met my mom? Haha. Some people looooove to be miserable and ther favorite hobby is complaining. You can’t help them- they usually want to be that way.

 

Post # 4
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858 posts
Busy bee

@Leeluu: are we sisters? lol your right some people just enjoy it I dont think there is much you can do if she doesnt even see its a problem, it sounds like she needs to get a hobby and get out more with friends it might improve her mood

Post # 5
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9825 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Avoidance works wonders.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Agree with her.  No matter what she says.  Sometimes a person like that will switch posistions just because they like ‘disucssions’ and debating.  It can be maddening at times, SO gets like this on bad days, and then wonders why I’m not hanging around the same room.   

Post # 7
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578 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I can fake a sneeze like no one and then I have to excuse myself hehe 

I have a few family members like that and ALOT on Fi’s side  ohhh the joys!

Post # 8
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1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Brutal honesty! I have an aunt who is the same way. I told her a while ago that she was needy and I just didn’t have time for her neediness and negative energy. She avoids me now and thinks I am a spoiled beatch. It may not work for you but girl it has worked wonders for me. lol

Post # 9
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2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Duct tape?  Ball gag?

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