- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
My Future Mother-In-Law is on the west coast. I live on the east coast. My Fiance lives in Hawaii. We are all spread far apart.
To be honest, I’m frustrated.
I have sent her pictures and details of everything. I ask her opinions. Usually her responses are asking what she should wear. I reply with whatever you’re comfortable in and tell her what my mom plans on wearing. When I ordered flowers, I order flowers for the bridal party, parents, and grandparents. I emailed her a list of names to make sure I didn’t forget anyone. She calls and says her and Future Sister-In-Law are not coming because there is no reason for them to come. We are purposely excluding them. Okay, I didn’t get dearest sister a dang flower. My bad. Didn’t know I was supposed to. That drama ended. They are coming now. I just don’t know how to make her feel more included so this doesn’t happen again. I call, text, and email her with almost every detail with usual no response. I’m not going to call her every 5 seconds till I get a response.
How do I make them feel included and get Future Mother-In-Law to pay attention to her only son’s wedding?