Post # 1
So, I’m in a completely different situation than most… I completely adore my stepmom!! Her and my mother get along, so that’s not a problem at all. My father died 3 years ago, but I still have a very close relationship with my stepmom. I want my stepmom to be a very important part of my day, but I’m not exactly sure how I can involve her.
Post # 3
Could she do a reading during the ceremony or give a toast at the reception (e.g. on behalf of your father, and yes I think it would be fine if your mother gave a speech too)? I’d also involve her as much as possible in the planning stages. I think you’re lucky to have such a good relationship with her 🙂
Post # 4
I have a very similar situation except my mom hates my stepmomAlthough my mom is paying for the food, she won’t pay for my stepmom’s plate!*rolling eyes*
I think if you having programs put her name under the parents list as well as what mountain.bride said.