(Closed) How to keep from hoping it will happen on certain outings

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@biochic75:  stop and take a DEEP breath ; ) calm down hun it will happen he said so this year so if i were you and i once was lol keep yourself busy with other things and try not to think about it all the time. you want it to be a surprise dont you? well let him feel you have cooled off about it and it will happen before you know it youll be Engaged!! take a break from all the wedding thoughts. *hugs* good luck and i hope it happends soon!

Post # 4
81 posts
Worker bee

@biochic75:  i am extremly guilty of this! I always end up super sad and dissapointed afterward. the above advice is the best approach, let him think you’ve calmed the crazy down a bit and he’ll probably be more relaxed and less nerved up about it. I have been talking myself down before any outings that I have the ‘this is it’ thoughts, just telling myself that its NOT to avoid the dissapointment, and then ya know what, if it is it you’ll be so surprised! i wish i had the key to help you on this but im in the same boat haha, i try to not think about it but i do always keep my nails looking tip top just incase lol….good luck!

Post # 6
81 posts
Worker bee

@biochic75:  well i was thinking it was going to be October….as we enter the last week of the month, not so!… I asked for a time line in late september after several outings which were followed by dissapointment, and i didnt like the answer….’i dunno, a year longer?’ BOOOOO!! so now it looks like ill be waiting for next october lol, the time line really helped me to stop the crazy thoughts since its so far out but i still always wonder from time to time if it will be sooner 😉

Post # 8
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

There really is nothing you can do unless you can turn your brain off. 🙁

I’ve been having that problem for over a year now, it drives you crazy, 

Post # 9
46 posts

Get your q popped? Preferably under the guise of a bday picnic. -teehee

‘grats, girl!

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