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    amoret11    November 6, 2010  

    I'm married, which should be enough deterrent for anyone.... Right?

    I recently attended a party with a friend, my husband didn't want to go so he drove me so I could have a couple of drinks and not worry about driving. My friend introduced me to some of her friends (female and male). We had a good time and most of them added me on facebook. Some of her friends are single, married and in a relationship so I saw no problem just accepting them. This one guy who I met at the party (and met my husband when he picked me up) is now sending me messages via facebook (he of course does not have my number). Nothing too forward but he compliments me a lot and says he can't wait to see me again. This is obviously not normal for someone who wants to be "friends" because the other people just say Hey What's up? How are you? etc, etc. I always say I'm busy or don't reply. Since he's friends with one of my best friends, I don't know if I should delete him. He has not said anything too forward so I don't know how to tell him that he really makes me unconfortable. 

    So what would you bees do? 

     
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    Lovemelovemyhorses    January 18, 2014   Australia

    Hmmm. I know he met your DH, but maybe he had too much to drink, or forgot you are married? Granted, there's the thing on facebook that says you're married though..

    I'd start mentioning DH a lot, maybe he'll get the hint? Otherwise maybe ask your friend what the deal is? Some people are just super friendly and if he hasn't actually tried to make a move AND he knows you're married, maybe that's just how talks to everyone or something. Good luck with this one!

     

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