How to make her feel appreciated

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

That’s a good question!

Maybe give her a special accessory so she stands out from the other maids on the day of your wedding? Maybe a special hair fascinator, or a necklace? You could give one to the MOH as well, but give a similar one to her!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

How many attendants do you have? Can you just have 2 maids of honor??

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

@Anna10-05-2014:  I’m sorry, but lol “I love S and M”. Anyway, back to the actual topic…I would just have a lunch with her and explain it to her. And let her know she is still special to you and you would really need her help with X”. Though I don’t know what X can be since you don’t want to take anything away from the MOH. I was gonna say bridal shower. Ugh, I dunno.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

This is why I just forgoed the while Maid of Honor/Bridesmaid. I decided I couldn’t pick a maid of honor out of my 3 best friends, and I didn’t want to hurt my sisters feelings by having 3 maids of awesome and 1 bridesmaid. So I opted to just ask them what they want their title to be (I also had them write their own bio for my website, which was supposed to be 1 or 2 paragraphs on why they are awesome).  Now one of my friends is my “Joo Maid,” and I’m excited to see what the others choose.

Can you not just have 2 maids of honor? How many bridesmaids do you have?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@jadlnc:  Lol, I thought that too. Rihannas song S&M came to my head. I was like “LOLOLOL” and then decided not to be an immature jerk. 😛

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Anna10-05-2014:  Honestly I’ll probably just let them decide which guy they want to walk with, or pair them off by height. My FI will be able to decide which order his friends go in, and they are all drastically diffrent heights, so I’ll probably just pair my shortest bridesmaid with his shortest groomsman and so on. Or I’ll make them rock, paper scissors for it. Obviously I am not super traditional and fortunately my friends are all very laid back.

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would give her special acessories!

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