How To Not Invite Family

posted 3 weeks ago in Guests
Post # 2
Member
728 posts
Busy bee

kbbear :  I wouldnt worry to much about it. They will honestly not even know it happened until after its over and by then you can just let them know that the wedding was super small, immediate family only kind thing. They wont know as the only person to tell then would be you as they dont talk to your mom. Just in the meantime be careful to avoid posting wedding related things, or you can block specfic people from seeing things you post. I do that with my grandma and my politcal posts, lol.

If you really want to tell them before hand though. Just tell them the same thing, its very small wedding, and if you really want to celebrate with them maybe have dinner with them at a later date or have a little party at your house with them later. 

Post # 3
Member
48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2017 - NOLA

Elope. This is what we’re doing to avoid our crazy families (on both sides!) Best of luck. 

Post # 4
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3660 posts
Sugar bee

kbbear : forget what your mother wants, what do YOU want? Do you want your siblings to be there? It’s your day, not hers. 

If you don’t want them there, I would follow chrissybee’s advice. If you do want them there, invite them. Your mom will have to get over it. 

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