How to politely hint at a shower?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1441 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If they wanted to host a shower, I’m sure they would say so. 

Post # 4
502 posts
Busy bee

If you feel like you have to hint it and can’t just outright say it, then you already understand that it’s something that cannot be said without being greedy. 

Post # 5
3661 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

“Unless we just get all the gifts at the wedding.”

Registries are suggestions, not requirements or demands. 

Post # 8
2649 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

11mikesgirl21:  You can’t. 

Showers are a party thrown in your honor by people who choose to do it.  It’s not a requirement or somthing you are owed or get to oversee.  If they are planning a shower, the details are theirs to plan and they may or may not ask for your input.

Post # 9
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

If they wanted to throw you a shower, I’m sure they would have said something by now.

and I’m not sure what you meant by “all the gifts” at the wedding, but you don’t get double gifts at the wedding if you hqd no shower.

Let it go and enjoy your wedding.

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