How to shut out negative people in my life?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I learned the hard way that trying to explain to someone that the negative energy/mood/aura was hard to be around..and there is no happy ending.  In the end, I have had to cut people from my life…but things are so much happier and less stressful since then.  Sometimes I still miss them, but in the end I can’t say I regret it.  I have one friend thats been coming around again, but its still the same and I find i have a harder time dealing with all the drama than I used to.  Its a crappy situation to be in regardless…hopefully you figure something out though

Post # 4
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I generally just ignore them until they get the hint.

Post # 5
479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@nerdwife12:  Breaking up is hard to do, but your sanity is the most important thing besides your physical health.  I simply distanced myself.  No offense people, but I love me more.  I’ve actually stepped away from family and ‘friends’ who really did intend to engage in a mutually beneficial relationship.  It has definitely caused me to become a lot closer to my FH.  He’s happy to not have to share me anyway.  LOL

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