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I don't mean to sound whiny or greedy, but I'm kinda bummed/stressing. Our registries are quite large bc we have quite a large guest list, and 2 showers. One was this weekend in my hometown and one is in a few weeks here in Boston. The reason that I'm stressing is that while I'd say 75% of our registry items have been purchased, my most coveted items (our crate and barrel every day dinnerware, which was a bit of a splurge as it's bone china but I love it and wanted high quality every day dishes so they aren't chipping in a yr or two) are not TOUCHED! How do I steer people in that direction? Should I delete other things so it's obvious that that's what's left? Should I ask my fi's mom to spread the word? Or just let it go, hope we get them, and if not, make returns in order to get them? Any ideas? Thanks!!!!

Thanks for the reassurance, I am pretty sure though that much of the stuff off the registries are for the upcoming shower or wedding gifts as only about half or even 1/3 was received at the past shower. Adding a few place settings isn't a bad idea.. hmm. Thanks!!