- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I’m in need of some help from the hive!! So last month I married the man of my dreams. He is sweet, loving, considerate, smart, handsome, etc etc – but his sister is driving me crazy! He was a “change of life” baby, so his sister is considerably older, 16 years to be exact. I think she thinks of him as more of a son rather than a brother. As my photographers are putting up our pictures on Facebook, she has started sharing them ALL. Excessively. There was one I wanted to print out and frame for my husband’s (and mine) beloved aunt, she beat us to it. One picture of our first look that I loved – she shared 24 times (yes 24) on FB. I really don’t mean to sound like a brat or a bridezilla but I really feel like she is stealing my thunder on this. I know she is excited, and most likely lonely, but I feel like this should be my thing. I put up some pictures of the rehearsal and favor preparations, she went on a sharing-spree with them too, even though I had tagged the people in the picture she was sharing with. We live in another state, and she has only met my family when they were in town for the wedding, and she added my sister as a friend and is sharing all the pictures of my 2 year old niece with all of her friends, which my sister is a total privacy weirdo and won’t like the pictures of her daughter being out there everywhere. I feel like a total brat even writing this out! How can I talk to her about this? Please constructive things only, I already feel like enough of a jerk.