(Closed) How to tell someone they AREN’T in your wedding?!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Just say “Yes, my best friend is my maid of honor” the next time she starts hinting. As for the rest, don’t talk about the wedding in front of her, and change the subject when she brings it up. And tell your FI that loose lips sink ships!  LOL. Good luck!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I would probably keep telling her that you haven’t decided on your plans yet. You have only known her 3 months, she can’t possibly expect to be in the inner circle yet. She can find out along with everyone else and if she has a problem with it then I’m not sure she’s cut out to be a real friend.

Post # 5
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2214 posts
Buzzing bee

I would just say that you haven’t decided what you’re going to do yet and tell her about the elopement when you get back.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Don’t tell her anything! Just ignore her/change the subject/say you haven’t decided yet. And keep away from her, she sounds creepy.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Do not tell her anything.  You have to do what is right for you, especially if you want to keep it from your mother.  And, tell FI to keep quiet!

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