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How to Write a Successful Post

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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    A lot of you beautiful Bees stepped in to help answer the influx of newly written posts with no replies.  The Hostess Team is very grateful for all the help.  There were a few comments about helping the NewBees with writing a post that gets the answers they are looking for.  Here are a few tips to help.

     

     

    • Title of your post - Be specific, be accurate, be interesting.  Instead of saying "BM Dresses"  say "What do you think of these BM dresses?"  Or "Would this BM dress go with my rustic theme?"  Please try not to post in all capital letters, it helps the Mod team keep the boards clean.

    • Content - Keep is as specific as possible.  With more specific content, your fellow Bees can better assess what information you are looking for.

      • If there is a lot of content, like when you need to explain a specific issue, break it up into paragraphs and use proper capital letters.  Posts that are one huge paragraph, lots of misspellings, and lack capital letters are very difficult to read and some Bees that could possibly help may skip something that is difficult to read.

    • How to add photos (actual photos are WAY better than links) - daydreamwanderer wrote "5. How do I post a photo? Look for the green button that looks like a polaroid of a tree. Clicking it will bring up an upload box where you can upload and manage photos. How to Write a Successful Post :  wedding how to write a post wb tips Test  Weddingbee Boards 1.jpg

     


     

    • Select a topic for your question.  At the bottom of writing a post, there is a drop down menu that will give you a choice of topics.  Be specific.  If you are asking a question about a venue in Dallas, please post to Dallas/Fort Worth.  If you just post to Venues, you will not be getting targeted replies.  (Don't forget to check your local boards, you may have an answer for someone in your area).  If you are posting to a local board, it may take a few days for a useful response, so keep checking your back on your posts.  If you are asking a not wedding related question and there is no topic for your post, please post to The Lounge.  Again, this helps the Hostess team keep the boards orderly.

    • Check back to your posts.  There is nothing worse than leaving, what you think is, great advise or something helpful and the Original Poster never returns.  We all love to know that something was helpful, so make sure you check back and let them know.

    • Timing - If you post in the middle of the night (or during the days for our European and Aussie Bees), you may not get responses right away.  Don't be afraid to come back to your post and "bump" it for the daytime Bees.  This puts it back to the top of the boards.  Don't do it too often, but if you haven't gotten a helpful response or you have useful information to share, don't be afraid to "bump" your thread.

    • Tag you post.  If you tag your posts, it will be easier for future bees to go back to your post to find some useful information that may help them.

    • Editing - If you see something in your post that you would like to change, you have one hour to change it. 

    • Do Not put your email address in the content.  Remember, this is a public board and Google/Bing searchable.

    • Flagging Posts - should you come across an answer that violates the ToS or WBs Comment policies, flag it and leave a description of the infraction.  Should you come across some really helpful information, or a Bee has gone out of her way to help, FLAG IT, and tell the Mod Team about it!  They just love good flags too!

     

     

     

     

     

    I hope these were helpful.  If you can think of anything else to add, please do.  Remember, we all have posts that slide through the cracks, especially when the boards are super busy or overnight slow.  It never feels good to have a thread feel "ignored", so share the love and check back to the No-replies link.  If we all do this occasionally, no thread will go without responses.

     

     

     


     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    This is an awesome post! We shoulds sticky this!

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @tksjewelry: Thanks so much for taking the time to write such a comprehensive and helpful post! This is very useful and important, even for those of us who have been around the hive for a while. :) As always, thanks to the Mod Team for all the amazing work that you do!

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    Very nicely put! Thank you mrs. hive hostess :)

     

     
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    ladyartichoke       UK

    I just checked I'd replied to my most recent posts, AND I took one thread off the "No Replies" list (is this something we can access directly from the boards?).  This is great advice and definitely should be stickied!  I'm guilty of posting links not pics *slaps wrist* I'll be better in future :)

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @ladyartichoke: Great question, thanks for asking.  Unfortunately, you would have to bookmark it.  If you are using IE, you can save it to your live.com account or a onenote, which is what I use to save all the links that I use for WB.

     
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    ladyartichoke       UK

    @tksjewelry: Great, thanks. :)

     
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    CarolinaCola    February 22, 2014   South Carolina

    I never thought of flagging things that are super helpful! I thought those were only for bad bees! Haha.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @CarolinaCola: Sure, Mods love good flags too occasionally.  It gives them a pick me up a mist with all the other flags.  They also let the Mods know when to send an "at a boy" to a particularly helpful Bee.

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    This should definitely be a sticky!  Heck, even old members could use this from time to time.  :)

     
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    MissNoodles    September 14, 2011   Winnipeg, Canada

    Here's my 2 cents:  do a quick search for other posts which contain your same/similar question before posting.  It's better to resurrect an older thread and bump it for new opinions and comments, than to start a new one.

    I've seen at least 3 or 4 threads this week that ask the identical question to threads started just a few days prior.  Usually a nice Bee will come in and reply with a link to the previous thread, but not always.

     
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    Eight6Eleven    August 6, 2011   Pittsburgh

    I never knew you could flag "good" posts too! Thanks for the info, TKS!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @MissNoodles: Great Point! 

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    @MissNoodles: This is what I try to do.

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    @MissNoodles: This is what I try to do.

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    This is a great post! Thank you for writting this, I even learned from it and I've here like forever :s

     
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    All In    November 1, 2011  

    Great post idea! Thanks for the tips--took me awhile to figure this one out myself! 

     
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    JuneBride2012    June 2012  

    Great post! This should definitely be a sticky!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Here is a link to the board descriptions.

     
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    Ms. Martian    September 9, 2012   Ontario

    Sticky!

    This is awesome!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @Ms. Martian: It is stickied under the Weddingbee Tab.

     

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    Great post! Thanks for taking the time to write it! (but too bad most of the people who need to read this won't... the "post and run"-ers.)

     
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    @MissNoodles:  unless the old post is 2 to 3 years old. Then I think it's better to start your own new post. Any information, links or sources listed in a post that old are likely now invalid.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    I've been trying to respond to posts with zero replies today...there are so many though!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    @tksjewelry:  Thanks for the post.  Very good advice.

     

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